Love is…watching the sunset together
Love is… sitting outside… [redacted: too much information!]… revelling in an abundance of friendly affection and tender memories: “Do you remember when?!”; …
Big cause of awkwardness: Premature Emotional Intimacy
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone else who also struggles with awkwardness as I do. In terms of stages it …
Strands and Building Blocks
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to people who are considering whether to get married, for instance people who …
The Princess and the Prayer!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is really just about trying to find yet another creative way to thank the person who might have …
Quick Idea: 10 things I love about you!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this idea would be most helpful for people who are married ******************************************* This is really cute. I …
Sorry for the silence, thanks for your prayers!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This very brief post was written to reassure readers that I was fine, despite not posting on my blogs for …
Dirty Girl Ministries: Support for Pornography and sexual addiction habits in women
I just came across this site that is dedicated to supporting women who struggle with pornography and sexual addiction. Dirty Girl Ministries
Christian Romantic Fiction – The Heroes!
…And unto my second post of the evening that has in part been inspired by “Christian Romantic Fiction”. Just a quick observation. …
Sexual Purity – Homosexuality
For reasons that regular readers of this blog will probably not be able to eventually escape reading about, (again and again and …
Church V Marriage part 2
You don’t genuinely care, about me, or God. You are just interested in adding some extra multicultural kudos to your prayerless gathering, …
How joining a church is like entering a marriage
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone else who also goes to church, examining a few similarities between “church” and “a …
PS Fat Hints – That song…!
How could I have forgotten this in my super long post?! Yeah, that song!!!! That beautiful and incredible song! Just wow. I …
Simply Anywhere!
This is the second entry in my “Fat Hints” category, and thankfully it is a lot shorter than the first one: I …
Fat Hints!
I think I’m actually going to dedicate a category here on this blog to big fat hints, starting with this post! I’ve …
How to be truly beautiful: from the inside out
This is the final “December” post that was chosen in the poll of December posts to write. If anyone follows either of …
Anatomy of a Marriage made in Heaven
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to anyone who might be wishing to have a marriage made in heaven, …
Already desperately in love!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** If what I describe in this post is truly how many of us “fall in love”, then I think that …
EXTERNAL LINK: Why Marriage is harder than ever! (In the US)
Why Marriage is harder than ever (in the US)
Just in case you’re not the one praying (after all!)
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is such a personal post – ha ha ha! Possibly an example (yet another one!) of how to be …
Happy New Year 2015!
This post comes to wish all readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” a Happy New Year! Wishing you all the best for a …
People who have changed my life: My Husband!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** As this is an open letter to my husband, it is quite a personal post about my life, so it …
How women make themselves cheap
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is most relevant for women who are single and looking, encouraging them to insist on …
Dear Lord, please let it be him!
Dear Lord, If there really is someone out there praying for me; investing his time, effort and determination to make a deeply …
A Business-Minded Spouse as a Business Investment
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think this post is most relevant for people who are single and ambitious. It provides a new way of …
Sexual Purity: More Thoughts
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** Once again this post concerns general sexual purity, so I believe that it is generally useful for everyone no matter …
Talking about pornography and sexual fantasies
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is not about any particular relationship stage but is written to encourage sexual purity at any stage. ******************************************* Guilt …
Marriage is not an “eat as much as you like” buffet!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to all relationship stages, but most useful before marriage to help get a …
December Posts to Write? Short Summaries
Dear Huggie-Wuggie Reader, I would please appreciate your input in choosing the posts to write for December. A number of exciting post …
December 2014 Posts to Write Poll
Please choose 4 answers. The top 4 answers will get written up as posts. Closing Date for votes is Thursday 27th November …
Married to Myself?
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post will hopefully challenge people to imagine what it would be like to be married to them, so I …
November ideas that have occurred to me (to be voted on)
1. How to encourage someone to be the best they can be 2. I want to be so beautiful for you, my …
Welcome to the friendzone!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is most relevant for people who are single and looking, struggling with feelings for one …
Sample Newsletter
Dear {field1}, I hope this week is going excellently for you! Lots of exciting things have been happening here at Huggie-Wuggie Central …
The interaction between personality and character
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is about evaluating someone‘s personality and character before getting romantically involved with them, so I’d say it is …
October posts to write – ideas that have occurred to me in October/ish
1. Married to myself: Woman in china, recent woman, etc WRITTEN 2. Welcome to the friendzone!WRITTEN 3. Relationship ambivalence – can’t remember …
Acting like an idiot!
Well I’ve just written out a blog post just to try to express my thoughts regarding this “awkward thing”. To be honest, …
Awkward!
Wow, as I sit here typing at this post, I am giggling away, for a number of reasons. A significant reason is …
Unhappily single?!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I’d say that this post is most relevant for people who are single, or who might be going out with …
Funto Ojumu on Sexuality
Please check out this video of one of my relatives discussing her views on sexuality! [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_BESQP_0W8[/youtube]
Still Talking about Two Years!
This is a postscript that I have been meaning to add ever since I wrote the last post on “Two Years”. There, …
OK, what should I write about?!
This is a quick post asking for some reader input on the following issue: My biggest struggle with this blog is to …
Presenting myself to you in weakness
I would like to start this post with what is now becoming a customary thank you to whoever may be praying for …
Playing hard to get – further thoughts
This is a short addition to the existing thoughts I have already expressed about playing hard to get. One further reason why …
Further thoughts about two years…
Well I was thinking away about people in general, and remembering some issues I found myself having to shake my head. I …
Why people don’t listen
In this post I would like to offer a few thoughts on why … people don’t listen How women make themselves cheap …
True concern – Postscript
In this post, I would like to offer further clarification about the “true concern” post. As I was originally writing that post …
Dear Mr Potential Huggie-Wuggie…About awkwardness and vulnerability
This post is directed towards any man who could potentially become my very own Mr Huggie-Wuggie, to explain myself and my possible …
Further prayers for my marriage
These are further useful prayers to pray for my spouse and marriage. In prayer I roughly subdivide my time between the 3 …
So many ways to have a great marriage… And yet…
I was thinking recently over some of the thoughts that I have expressed here, and a few other ideas. And something that …
Where does true concern come from? And where does it go?
In this post I am going to address something that should really be central to this blog, but is not. That is, …
What if my husband won’t listen to my ideas?!
In this post, I would like to present to you something which has been my ongoing, quiet nightmare for a while. …
Why marital prayer is like your kidneys
I’ll admit that the title of this post is quite unusual! For many years, I’ve been puzzling over the idea of prayer …
Why we need each other!
Well I recently wrote a post where I thanked an unknown someone for praying for me. I’ve been meaning to write a …
Waiting for You!
Please check out this beautiful rendition of poetry about waiting for the right man. [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuraJpB0OJg[/youtube] [Comment Details]
Further thoughts about Submission
I think it is fair to say that the idea of wifely submission has been one of my biggest hang-ups about marriage …
My Personal Values
Here I’ve tried to list down all my own personal values regarding dating and relationships. This page is likely to change a …
Moving back to London?! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here While I was in London, thankfully I did not …
Moving back to London?! Part 1
Well I recently celebrated another anniversary of my arrival here in this beautiful city. I love this city so much. However, from …
OBSESSED!!!! And rightly so! And about time!!!!! And *proud* of it!!!!!
OK, I’ll admit it. I have just raced through writing my blog post on my other blog so that I could finally …
Struggling against an overactive imagination!
By the grace of God, God has blessed me with a very strong imagination. This is possibly the single biggest gift that …
Joy and Sadness!!!
This is a spontaneous blog post that just needs to be written right now! I am writing this blog post from a …
The difference between “friendly” and “friendship”
This post builds a little on last week’s post, about what friendship is “really”. This new post seeks to examine the subject …
What is friendship really? Part 2
After writing last week’s post on “What is Friendship?” I’ve been thinking a little more about the subject. What occurred to me …
What is friendship?
I must admit that it is somewhat embarrassing for me to have to write this post. After all, this concerns something that …
Thank you for your prayers – Again!
I’ve just published this post on my other blog. However, for some reason, I feel compelled to post it here too! ———————————————————— …
What it means to be attractive Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I used to beat myself up with these …
What it means to be attractive Part 1
(Only because I could not bring myself to call this post “What it means to be hot!”) After I posted last week’s …
Lord, please give me a Prayer Warrior!
Well a few things have happened recently. The conclusion I have come to is that I seriously have to find me a …
Love is sincerely not about the other person! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. This post is all about contradictions. Having said that …
Love is sincerely not about the other person! Part 1
Let me firstly apologise for not blogging here for a few weeks. I’ve been otherwise occupied! During that time, my mind has …
The strange balance of marriage
I’ll start with a confession: I have only just thought of this blog post right now, while I was writing the postscript …
Whatever you want in marriage – postscript
Well I was thinking about my last post which greatly focused on marriage and sex, and I thought it would be wise …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here Even if you are …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Imagine for a minute that your chosen partner is …
Whatever you want in marriage… Part 1
In this post, I am going to make quite a bold claim. I was thinking about this vaguely a few weeks ago. …
How do I know if he’s my friend?! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In our days, we have the benefits of modern …
But Lord, I’m lonely *now*!!!!
Well I’m going to start this post by making my customary observation that it has been so long since I posted here. …
All about two years Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. However, if you had simply allowed yourself to get …
All about two years Part 1
In this blog post I would like to write about my personal conviction regarding “the two year thing”. For people who do …
Mrs Huggie-Wuggie – or having a high huggie-wuggie quotient Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Unattractive Christians As I write this, it occurs to …
Being Mrs Huggie-Wuggie – or having a high huggie-wuggie quotient Part 1
Well today I had been planning to write a post about my personal conviction about the power in getting to know someone …
“…but he’s not a Christian!”
As I start typing this it is already past midnight, and we are now technically into Monday, where usually I would type …
Within the marriage itself… Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here If however, you did not spend the same time …
Within the marriage itself… Part 1
In my last post, I looked at a new and simple way to approach relationships before marriage to give each marriage the …
Revised relationship schedule Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here POTENTIAL PROBLEMS: This is possibly the biggest potential problem …
Revised relationship schedule Part 1
Happy New Year to all readers of this blog! I’m kinda hoping to keep to a more systematic schedule myself for writing …
A moment of sobriety…
Well my previous post, published just a short while ago, was supposed to be the last post on this blog for this …
To be honest… Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here And then naturally, I also need that he should …
To be honest… Part 1
To be honest, as I write this post, I have to admit that I don’t have a general destination in mind or …
Look younger than I am…
OK – erm – how to start this?! Can I ask you all a question: how old exactly do I look?! Because …
Anticipating the Pressure Points of your marriage
This is as usual a blog post that I have been thinking of for some time. I was thinking that in a …
Expecting “perfect” behaviour from imperfect people Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In a way, I feel then that this message …
Expecting “perfect” behaviour from imperfect people Part 1
I was thinking recently about one big reason why many people face disappointment in marriage. To put it simply, life presents many …
The difference between love and lust Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. I guess though there is also the very important …
The difference between love and lust Part 1
I came across an article with this same title a few weeks ago. It was also from a Christian writer. I had …
Building a heavy-duty marriage Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here Following on from this, here are a few …
Building a heavy-duty marriage – Part 1
Well today (that is, when I first wrote out this post) I was going to publish a post about building a heavy-duty …
Free Ebook: The difference between no-one’s perfect…and no-one’s perfect
This is an ebook of an existing post here on Finding Mr Huggie Wuggie. It is available as a free ebook in …
Free Ebook: Is There Only One? Knowing the Will of God in Marriage
This is an ebook of an existing post here on Finding Mr Huggie Wuggie. It is available as a free ebook in …
Free Ebook: Overview of Marriage
This is an ebook of an existing post here on Finding Mr Huggie Wuggie. It is available as a free ebook in …
What everyone else knows…Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here If you have identified an issue in your spouse, …
What everyone else knows… Part 1
This week I have been sifting through a number of Huggie-Wuggie posts. While doing that, a few thoughts occurred to me. The …
Free E-Book: Character and Other Issues in Marital Communication
I used to think that communication would be comparatively easy within marriage, that the period before marriage might be filled with communication …
Free Ebook: Legitimate Self-Concern Versus Unconditional Love In Marriage
I have personally struggled greatly with the tension between considering my own needs in marriage, and offering unconditional love to my husband …
Free Ebook: A Husband Equals…A Glass Ceiling?
This ebook asks whether it could be possible that many husbands effectively hinder the progress of their wives, purely because of ego. …
Free E-Book: Ladies, know your CYCLE!
An ebook giving advice to ladies about being aware of the potential impact of hormones to arouse certain romantic thoughts or feelings. …
Free E-Book: The Proverb of the Milk and the Cow
An ebook appealing especially to Christian ladies to insist on the highest standards of sexual purity within their relationships. It is available …
What if my needs change?
Well I’ve been thinking away about these topics as usual, and thinking about my favourite things…. However a thought that has been …
Excellent husband needed, not just wanted! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Well when the idea for last week’s post first …
Excellent husband needed, not just wanted! Part 1
OK, so within the week I found myself in a position of crying out to God in frustration about a number of …
Asking the wrong questions?
Well I’ve logged on for the purpose of writing an altogether different post, which I shall hopefully also write after this one. …
Avoiding Mr Perfect
This is a blog post which might seem to say the opposite of what I usually say. However, by the grace of …
Rethinking “lost marriage years”
(UPDATE 28th July 2014 This post was split off from an earlier existing post.) Something that strikes me now as it has …
Playing proactive versus playing hard to get Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here This is what playing hard to get looks like: …
Playing proactive versus playing hard to get Part 1
Finally, finally, I am able to address this issue which I find unspeakably frustrating! It’s like this. As a person, as a …
Two threats to marital love
Over the course of the week, I have been thinking away about marriage, as always. For anyone who follows this blog, you …
Unconditional love versus fear, anger and resentment
I have been thinking a lot about unconditional love recently. After starting off here on this blog with a number of posts, …
Happy Fathers’ Day, from Miss Greedy-Indeedy
Yes, people, in case you have not already realised, let me make it clear that I am Miss Greedy-Indeedy! And this is …
My dreams of my spouse… versus God’s dream for my spouse Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Actually, with my big dreams about life etc (and …
My dreams of my spouse… versus God’s dream for my spouse Part 1
A funny postscript to last week’s post: Someone asked me whether my prayers had worked yet! While yes, I believe my prayers …
How to pray to receive a spouse – further thoughts
I’ve previously written a post about how to pray for a spouse. This post here builds on that previous post. This new …
Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The other parts are available here: Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part …
Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part 2
This is the second part to an article posted last week Part 3 of this article is available here The three parts …
Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part 1
The three parts of this post have now been compiled into a single free ebook, available in a wide variety of formats. …
The disadvantage of youth?
After all the thoughts that have occurred to me on the subject of love, relationships and marriage, I was recently reflecting on …
Excellent wife material? Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. I do not think that there is anything wrong …
Excellent wife material? Part 1
I’m going to apologise in advance as this post is largely about myself, so it might have limited relevance to other people! …
Some thoughts on Sexual Temptation Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here This is all the more true, of course, if …
Some thoughts on Sexual Temptation Part 1
OK, this is a bit of a big post title. Before you read this post, if you are a Christian, I STRONGLY …
The meaning of “For better, for worse”
This is a post that expands an issue that I lightly touched on last week: the meaning of “For better or for …
Positive Feed-Forward
Happy Easter Sunday to everyone, happy Resurrection Sunday! Well, as this is Easter Sunday, mindful of the sacrifice that Christ made for …
A positive, prayerful way of giving difficult feedback
In my many thoughts about marriage, something that I have thought about a lot is a constructive way of handling difficult issues, …
Positivity!
I’m currently struggling to decide whether many of my recent blog posts here have been overwhelmingly negative. If you have been reading …
Are you better off married….or single? Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here When we are dreaming happily about marriage in general …
Are you better off married….or single? Part 1
Let me start off by quickly saying that if I could choose between having a brilliant marriage and having a brilliant life …
A husband equals…a glass ceiling? Part 4
This is the fourth part of this post. The first is available here The second is available here The third is available …
A husband equals…a glass ceiling? Part 3
This is the third part of this post. The first is available here The second is available here All parts of this …
A husband equals…a glass ceiling? Part 2
This is the second part of this post,the first is available here All parts of this blog post are now available here …
A husband equals…a glass ceiling? Part 1
All parts of this post are now available together as a single free ebook in a full variety of ebook formats here …
Happy Mothers’ Day!
Wishing Happy Mothers’ Day to all the mothers, grandmothers, aunties, family friends, sisters and other ladies who have helped shaped us into …
A real man versus Mr Wonderful Dream
This is an idea that in a way flows quite smoothly on from the post of love versus infatuation which I wrote …
The difference between love and infatuation
Well Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! In honour of Valentine’s day I am going to write today on a subject that is very …
Feelings of inadequacy
I don’t know why it is, but my mind will be buzzing with interesting and exciting ideas for blog posts all week, …
Thoughts about Communication
Here are some thoughts that I have been thinking about communication. I used to think that communication would be comparatively easy within …
Why the time before your marriage can be the most powerful part of your marriage
I am sure I have expressed these thoughts before on this blog, perhaps scattered through different blog posts. I believe that the …
Tosin’s Guy Rules
This is a post that I’ve been thinking of writing for a while. However, even though this is a blog that gets …
Communication Issues – Continued
Well after writing last week’s post on communication, I was reflecting a bit and thinking that there might be lots more reasons …
Merry Christmas from Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
Ah, so Mr Huggie-Wuggie, it seems as if you have managed to elude my grasp for this year also?! Thank you to …
Communication Issues are often Character Issues, Trust Issues
I’ve been thinking a lot about “communication” in marriage. Various wise and knowledgeable people refer to it as the lifeblood in any …
Dating
In my posts, I refer a lot to “dating”. I often speak quite negatively about it. Here, I thought I would clarify …
I don’t love you any more!
I sometimes wonder why it is in the midst of hard times that people break up. I always think that that is …
My attitude to Internet Dating
This is a blog post that I’ve been thinking about writing for a long time. A number of people have advised me …
How to pray to receive a spouse – one way
[This post contains quite a long preamble – so here is a link to jump straight to the actual content of how …
Everybody changes!
Last week I considered the subject of how to be confident, even from before marriage, that a future spouse will keep getting better …
The difference between no-one’s perfect…and no-one’s perfect Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Overtaking? Sometimes, if someone is aggressively pursuing excellence, even …
The difference between no-one’s perfect…and no-one’s perfect Part 1
The content of this post is now available as a free ebook from Smashwords, in a wide variety of formats here When …
Ditching the toxic “marriage maths mentality” Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Actually, I believe that everyone has the potential to …
Ditching the toxic “marriage maths mentality” Part 1
This post is about mathematical issues regarding finding a spouse, and why I believe people (and especially women) should have the courage …
Ladies – know your cycle!
Update: Tuesday 23 October 2012: This post is now available as a free ebook from Smashwords in a variety of ebook formats …
Obedience first, understanding later Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here If you got married as a Christian to …
Obedience first, understanding later
I’m going to start this post with what is now a customary apology for not having posted here for what is now …
Apology to a university colleague
This is a long overdue apology to someone I was at university with: [youtube]http://youtu.be/ZQmZvY_0yco[/youtube]
Musings on “No matter what”, and bringing the best out of your spouse
I think it would probably be most honest of me to admit that a big reason why I am almost insisting to …
My dream Valentine’s Day!
Well anyone who has been following this blog at all will know that I have not posted here for a while. The …
A little bit of “So There!”
The idea for this article post occurred to me last week even as I was writing out my previous post, and it …
Would it be OK…?
After the seriousness of the last few blog posts, this one is quite light-hearted. However, I think that this is one that …
Overview of Marriage Continued
OK, this is an addition that I’ve been meaning to post since I wrote the last post – overview of marriage. And …
Overview of Marriage Part 4
This is the fourth part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here The third is available …
Overview of Marriage Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here So anyway, finally, a …
Overview of Marriage Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I also think that it is so powerful to …
Overview of marriage Part 1
Well this week, I had planned to write a blog post that was titled “Just because he loves you does not mean …
Just because he marries you…
OK last week, we looked at the Proverb of the Milk and the Cow, which encourages ladies to insist on the highest …
The Proverb of the Milk and the Cow Part 3
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here This then is the …
The Proverb of the Milk and the Cow Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here So what difference then do you think that marriage …
The Proverb of the Milk and the Cow Part 1
This post is now available here as a free ebook in a full variety of ebook formats. Today I am going to …
When Tosin met….or when Tosin went crazy! ;) Part 3
This is the third part to this post. Part 1 is available here Part 2 is available here So you’d think that …
When Tosin met….or when Tosin went crazy! ;) Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here So what exactly about him was it? Honestly, to …
When Tosin met….or when Tosin went crazy! ;) Part 1
In which Tosin… I am very conscious of the fact that I might give the impression that I am perfect, or that I …
Embracing “The Wait” Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here More waiting: So the Wait for me can be …
Embracing “The Wait” Part 1
This post comes to you courtesy of a question asked by a certain sibling of mine – about addressing “the Wait”. Before …
Putting the Kingdom first
Well, I’ve literally just completed a post on my Bible blog about how God’s highest priority for the world is its salvation, …
Re – more on when the relationship starts
Answer to a question from a Facebook friend: “What do you think differentiates two people who are going out from ordinary friendships?” …
Your Wedding day is NOT your marriage! (Sweetie!)
This is a blog post especially for the ladies out there! Actually, you know what? I think weddings SHOULD be celebrated elaborately, …
When does the relationship start?
Obviously, as Christians, certain parts of your relationship can (ok, should) ONLY start after you get married – like sex, and all …
October – Posts to Write
Your Wedding day is NOT your marriage – sweetie! 😉 – DONE – 16 Oct 2011 Just because he marries you does …
This blog and you!
Or, who this blog is for. Firstly, thank you for reading this blog! I am grateful and honoured to anyone who is …
Friendship Criteria
Well, after writing a blog post proclaiming that I was not going to write just about myself and my expectations in marriage …
Enough about me!
Well recently I was chatting to my sisters and for some reason, which I now forget, we started talking about a certain …
Still more…
Today, I would like to add a couple of further characteristics that I forgot to add to my blog post last week. …
Further Characteristics Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here *My husband has to aspire to be greater than …
Further characteristics for my husband Part 1
Well I have a little confession – that is that I am still writing out the subdivisions of the first essential characteristic …
Characteristic 1.4
Next Characteristic – Christlike character!
Characteristic 1.3 – all sold out!
OK, this is now the third subdivision in my first characteristic for my husband. This is that he has to be completely …
Characteristic 1.2 – No Matter What!
OK, the second subdivision in the First essential Characteristic for my husband is a commitment to remain committed to and deeply rooted …
Thank you for your prayers!
OK, before I write the characteristic for this week, I would like to take some time to thank the person who has …
Characteristic 1.1 – Knowing God
After defining the different parts of the first characteristic (that I will look for in a husband) over the last 2 weeks, …
Why I don’t care about your money – Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here It annoys me when someone drives up in a …
Why I don’t care about your money – Part 1
This is a wall post I recently borrowed from a Facebook friend to post on my own Facebook wall: “To all the …
Characteristic 1 Continued – all for Jesus!
Well last week I started expressing the essential characteristics that I am looking for in my husband. I started off with the …
First Characteristic – All for Jesus!
OK, well in recent weeks I have spoken about necessary criteria for my marriage and the interaction between me and any potential …
Criterion no 3 – Communication
Well I’m only referring to this criterion as no 3 to be orderly/methodical, as over the course of the week I have …
Very drastic reworking! (Of Criterion No1)
Well, the truth is that I continue to think about my blog posts after I have written them, and I mentally edit …
Criterion No 2 – Friendship
OK, now for the second criterion on the list of essential criteria for my husband – perhaps in this case, it would …
Criterion No 1…! ;)
I have just made a very drastic reworking to this criterion. Before reading on to Criterion No 1, please check out this …
As Christ loved the church…
Ephesians 5v25 “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her….” OK, so last week …
Positive Expectations!
OK, once again I’ve been assessing my own thoughts about marriage. I’m very aware that my thoughts and my writings have been …
What if I never get married? – a postscript
Thank you to everyone who has submitted a comment on my previous blog post, “What if I never get married?” On thinking …
What if I never get married?
This post concerns a very interesting question, one I have asked myself countless times over the years – what if I actually …
Is there only one? Or knowing the will of God in marriage Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I just cannot accept these thoughts. It makes more …
Is there only one? Or knowing the will of God in marriage Part 1
OK, this is a post that I have been thinking about for quite a while. I have found myself getting into discussions …
How modern life affects relationships Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I always like people to know that I’m not …
How modern life affects relationships Part 1
Before I start, I would just like to share this: to my amazement it appears that people are reading this blog. Wow. …
Faith and Submission – Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here OK, and then you think – “hmm, honestly …
Faith and Submission Part 1
OK, I’m supposed to be working on my business right now, but my business mind feels as if it has turned to …
In anticipation of marital fighting
Apologies from the outset if this sounds like a negative blog post. I don’t want to sound as if I’m prophesying negatively …
My commitment to Huggie-Wuggie?!
Oh dear, I have not written a Huggie-Wuggie blog post in weeks! It’s quite funny, as when I was setting up the …
Posts to write
In anticipation of a difficult marriage – done -kinda! The cow and the milk -done Different attributes for my husband – done …
Please don’t do this! ;)
This is a letter not to my future husband, but rather to my holy, excellent single Christian brothers. Dear Brother, if you …
Feelings versus Friendship
OK, as you may know, I can be very good at writing very, very long articles! So I will summarise the point …
Happy Valentine’s Day!
This is the joke open letter that I posted on my Facebook Status on Valentine’s Day this year, and it is from …
Joshua Harris – I Kissed Dating Goodbye
Joshua Harris – I Kissed Dating Goodbye Many of my thoughts on relationships which could potentially lead to marriage and also my …
Why am I so scared…of what I want?!
To my own great surprise, I have not produced many “Huggie-Wuggie” blog posts this week. I am surprised about this because possible …
Musings about Relationships
This article was originally written for my weekly Facebook Sunday Notes feature on Sunday 10 October 2010 ———————————————————————————— OK, I must admit …
Finding a good wife! Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here. Also, in our particular church, there are no …
Finding a good wife! Part 1
This article was originally written for my Facebook weekly Sunday Notes feature on Sunday 17 October 2010 ———————————————————————————— Proverbs 18.22 “He who …
Concerns about Dating Part 2
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here However, in addition to Pastor I’s comments, I would …
Concerns about Dating Part 1
This article was originally written for my weekly Facebook notes feature, called Sunday notes, on Sunday 24 October 2010 ———————————————————————————– Song of …
Marriage advice from a single woman?
This post was originally written for my weekly Facebook notes feature, called Sunday notes, on Sunday 7th November 2010 ————————————————————————————- Proverbs 8 …
Students of Marriage
This article was originally written for my weekly Facebook notes feature, called Sunday Notes on Sunday 28 November 2010 ———————————————————————————– Proverbs 3v13-18 …
Why this is such a big deal for me!
OK, I think that I can admit that this is a very big deal for me! I guess it’s fair to say …
Thoughts on life, love and marriage
I am so excited that I’ve finally launched this blog. It’s going to be a blog about thoughts, insights and meditations on …
