Links now working again! [1 min read]
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I have now conducted a site wide “search and replace”, and I hope it is true that all links are now working again.
True Story: Chanel’s House and Chanel Boateng: Surviving Marriage to a Nigerian ‘Pastor’.. Our Wife: (My Story)- Part 1.. [3 min read]
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Response to: Surviving Marriage to a Nigerian ‘Pastor’.. Our Wife: (My Story)- Part 1..
Apologies for broken links! [2 min read]
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I must apologise to anyone who has been encountering broken links on this website over the last few months.
Yeah, I’m finally calling it: I simply don’t believe in romantic “love” like that! [17 min read]
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A better title for this post would be “Why it is dangerous to lead with love and romance in a relationship even if like me that is what you are looking for”.
Being happily reminded, once again, of just how little I know! [5 min read]
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The point of this post is [to discuss the fact] that writing this blog sometimes deceives me into thinking I know a lot about relationships…
Land of the silver birch….Rediscovering parts of me that I have buried [16 min read]
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The minor scale that it is written in and the lyrics just speak to me of nostalgia, or memory, of love for a place, of the natural rhythms of life.
March 2026 reminder: Yep, I still want this! [1 min read]
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This is a little note just in case Mr Eventual Huggie-Wuggie is reading this:
Yeah, I definitely want this!
Happy Valentine’s Day…for anyone celebrating! [6 min read]
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The things represented by Valentine’s Day, the values it represents or speaks to, the feelings it acknowledges, encourages or speaks to, do not intersect with my own relationship hopes or yearnings *at all*.
Still talking about YouTube Afro-Korean dramas [17 min read]
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I don’t think that these videos can truly give me an accurate representation of reality, but they can tell me perhaps what people think about love, or they can give me a romanticised idea of love.
AI, Afro-Korean Youtube romances, and the interplay between love and sex [15 min read]
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I have previously stated on this blog that I watch lots of YouTube videos. Just now, my brain craves constant stimulation or cheap dopamine so I often just keep scrolling from vid to vid.
Looking to see the reality behind the effort [16 min read]
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This entire blog deals with just how easy it is to marry a poor choice of husband, and this post specifically.
New Thoughts subblog now closed [1 min read]
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New Thoughts Sub blog now closed
New blog address [1 min read]
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Please note, if you visit this blog a lot, you might need to clear your browser cache specifically for this domain name “https://huggie-wuggie.com”
Pretension and lies… [6 min read]
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In the world of the rich… many places or establishments charge a huge premium for what, ultimately, is often *exactly the same* as is available at far more modest prices…often exactly the same brands, from the same bottles.
Well hello again!
Image from Pixabay Yes, it truly has been a while this time! What I am about to describe is partially responsible for …
A critique of Evangelical (Calvinistic) faith
Image from Pixabay [Edit: I’m not sure I referred to his ethnicity in this post, but after writing it, I discovered to …
Remembering that the God for feminists is also the God of anti-feminists…
Well, here’s something I’ve always said, which is glaringly obvious on thinking about it. Simply this, there is only one God. And …
Lack of images in blog posts…
Image from Pixabay Well I’ve finally got an excuse for not putting images on my blog posts. The actual, true reason is …
Sunday 4th May 2025: Important ideas I have come across
Image from Pixabay Over the last few days, I have come across a few powerful ideas on relationships I would like to …
Public Service Announcement: A single woman does not strictly “need” a man’s leadership
Image from Pixabay [EDIT: Fri 19th Dec 2025, as I am retrospectively adding images to this blog post, it occurs to me …
Dealing with my own worst red flags: disdain
Image from Pixabay I did intend to write this as a post but then I got caught up in writing edits on …
Society needs women to make poor choices
Image from Pixabay [Edits to add: – Just like the economy needs some people to make poor spending choices to flourish through …
Hello again! Still madly “in like” after all these years!
Thumbnail image from Pixabay Wow, it has been so long since I last wrote a blog post here. I feel a little …
15+ years later, finally working out how to organise this blog…
Image from Pixabay [Edit: On rereading this post to add images on 20th December 2025, I realise that I did not actually …
Finally back on this blog: From “Avoid avoid avoid” to “Go go go!”: a holy, funny, passionate love story
Wow, it has been so incredibly long since I last wrote a post on this blog. Not because my fervour for these …
10th August – thank you for your prayers!
Man, of late I have been busy! Today I thought I might get an early night (ie, going to bed before 2 …
17 July 2024, lots of thoughts!
17 July 2024, lots of thoughts! This blog post is an attempt both to express my thoughts and to get them straight …
Super-spontaneous post: Finally being honest with this blog, also I need to get serious about YouTube vids!
So in this post I am going to finally be fully honest. Actually, you know what? I have always been honest on …
Super-spontaneous post: YouTube video about regrets on buying homes
So… I’ve been doing quite a lot of doomscrolling on YouTube in the last few months, with a special focus on the …
Not another late night post!
Yes, this would be another of those late night posts. However, I am going to be good and instead just tap out …
Romance Writings Subblog
As of today 29 May 2024 the “Romance Writings” subblog is being discontinued. History’s Royal Highnesses: Cinderella is now available on a …
Blog posts to write 17 May 2024
Posts that I have been thinking of writing, hope to get to soon: -False flag Christians: insincere but loud Christians, in essence …
Updated 17 May 24: ONGOING: Talking about dermatillomania and hyperpigmentation
*****Post originally published 24 April 2024***** ***** 17th May 2024, video taken 17th May 2024 So it occurred to me to not …
Getting analytical about the real reason I’ve struggled with friendships…
…and realising that that also flows over into why I struggle to find a husband. For the first time ever it occurs …
What if you like someone…but are not sure about their culture?
This is hopefully going to be a very quick post, because, once again, I am writing this late into the night – …
Reminder whatever you want (in marriage)…
This is hopefully going to be a super quick post because I’ve got to get out of the house ASAP! It suddenly …
Long time no post, awkwardness, community, middle-class churches, labour exploitation versus financial success
I’m so conscious that I have not posted for a few weeks now. I must confess that I am procrastinating a little! …
Sat 02 March 2024 – video
As I add this video, it occurs to me that I have not written an actual post for a while. Such is …
Video: Tuesday 20 Feb
Well I have encountered a significant technical glitch this week, meaning that this week’s video is not truly a video but is …
Spontaneous Sunday (Monday) post, no video yet :(
So today I have as yet not been able to create my Sunday video, for quite good reasons. However, something occurred to …
Happy Belated Valentine’s Day!
I hope that everyone celebrating had a lovely day yesterday. ❤️❤️❤️
Sunday 11 Feb 2023 (Mon 12th Feb)
I make the point in the vid that I have been deliberately toning myself down to try to fit in to a …
Sunday 4th Feb 2024 – Video
Well I shot this video a few hours ago, and edited it. Since then however I have been busy with other work …
Goodbye to this subblog, back to the main blog!
Dear readers, I would like to let you all know that I will no longer be writing on this subblog. From henceforth …
Video update: Sunday 28 January 2024
This update talks about a few blog post ideas that have been on my mind.
25 January 2024 Spontaneous video
To correct something I said within the video: yes I have been writing down my blog post ideas pretty much since I …
Hello again, dear friends!
And so it appears that I am going to resume writing posts directly on this subblog, after a hiatus of a few …
Video Intro
I am so happy that I have finally managed to set up my camera etc for taking videos. Annoyingly, it eventually turned …
Happy New Year 2024! [Video]
After shooting the video, I remembered that I have actually created videos in the past but I was not able to keep …
Let’s talk about…Constantine
You know, I have a family member who has aggressively rejected Christmas, and other celebrations, for perhaps 20 years, where previously they …
Talking about raising the dead
Well today marks the second week in a row when I have not written a post, although I said I was going …
Now what was that profound thing that I wanted to write?!
Well yesterday (Saturday, technically now two days ago) as I was lying in my bed there was some powerful stuff that I …
Why is all this happening at the same time?
Let me first clarify what I mean by my title! There is indeed a lot happening in the world all at the …
Thank you for your prayers: I believe that God has struck my heart with a deep understanding of humility
You know, I have kinda built my Christian identity around the fact that I invest a lot of effort into my faith, …
There’s something about autumn…
…that makes me yearn for human connection. [I initially wrote this post over a month ago on the 25th September but I …
Big Love versus Big Sex
Well I will get to the post title, but first a funny anecdote: Yesterday I wrote a post talking about how I …
Are you the boss of me?!
So this is my second attempt at writing this post tonight. The first attempt did not quite hit the right tone…and I …
So today I finally realised that women and men are blaming one another for systemic issues
I’m trying to work out how to correctly phrase this: I mean that women are blaming men and men are blaming women…This …
Cultivating delight
I was recently thinking that the question of marital success is completely subjective and dependent on what the marriage partners feel. If …
Dear Mr Huggie-Wuggie…
I want you to know that I always want to be in constant pursuit of you, even after I have hopefully won …
Realising that I must never look down on anybody [Thank you for your prayers]
I’d like to say “Thank you for your prayers” once again to anyone who might be praying for me. The thoughts that …
Thank you once again, yet again to my Prayer Hero!
I would like to say “Thank You” once again to anyone out there who is praying for me, if there is indeed …
The importance of insisting on Christlike character
This is a post I have written, or attempted to write, several times in the past. And I am writing it once …
New (old) thoughts on love
I’ve been trying to understand marital love for a long time now, and I believe that I have now come to a …
The difference between testing and evaluating a future spouse
When I let people know that I evaluate them, from the way people seem to quietly get upset, I get the feeling …
Back into the fire?
I was talking recently with a dear Aunt. Before I launch into this post proper, I need to make it clear that …
Should you tell your friends when they have been demoted?
I don’t know whether I am just being paranoid, but I am worried that a few people have taken my “How to …
Men, Loneliness, and “checking out” of society
Over the last few months, I have watched a few videos on YouTube (perhaps 5, max) about how men specifically are apparently …
Friendship mission statement or agreement
What response does it trigger in you as a reader when I suggest the idea of a friendship mission statement? To me, …
Why am I like this?!
I have spoken previously on this blog about the BBC’s Pride and Prejudice, starring Colin Firth and Jennifer Ehle. Well I have …
Deleting the rants!
You know, there is something I have been vaguely thinking of for a while now, and just today I experienced deep conviction …
Deconstruction part 3
OK, here I am and I still have not written my deconstruction post! I suspect that this is going to be an …
Still deconstructing!
This post is likely to be hard to read because I’ve literally just thrown down a number of ideas in my mind …
Let us talk about “Deconstruction” or deconverting – initial post
I came across a “deconstruction” video on YouTube a few days ago, posted by a pastor explaining why many people were leaving …
Great idea: Alphabet date nights
I came across this date night idea for alphabet date nights, and I think it is a great idea! 🙂 https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/relationship-feeling-stale-give-the-viral-alphabet-date-nights-a-try_uk_64c21faee4b03ad2b896797b
False Impressions…
You know, I hate hinting. So there is this guy, and I genuinely do not know whether he is currently reading this …
Talking about sexual honesty
You know, I was recently remembering someone who I mentioned here a few months ago. A few months ago I wrote a …
One big potential problem in relationships…
I was recently remembering a painful interaction I had with someone – who happened to be female. And that illustrated a big …
True story: Praising God fills my heart with joy!!!
Well this *was* the post I did login to write today! However, I am feeling so tired just now, at past 3 …
What is wrong with evangelical Christians?
This was not the post I logged on to write today. However, I just had a brief scan over a few of …
Finally remembered the point that I was trying to make!
Well I recently wrote about two adorable twin boys that I met a little while ago, and now I have finally remembered …
Also…(posts to write)
These are a few expressions of insecurity I have made on this blog recently, which have greatly surprised me, actually! – Gushing: …
Blog posts to write (while I still remember them!)
Why was I so angry though?! Revisiting a story I have ranted about endlessly on this blog, and asking myself: “Why was …
Love-life balance
SPOILERS: For “The Age of Innocence” 1993 movie, with Daniel Day Lewis, Michelle Pfeiffer, Winona Ryder OK, in this post I am …
Why my future husband *really* does not have to be worried about my past crushes. Really!
Let me start by saying that this post is written unapologetically, and unsubtly for the benefit of a specific person! This is …
Another apology…
There is someone I know who responded to me a little coldly a while back. As I write this, it occurs to …
Apologies to short kings
Many years ago, I wrote something on this blog which I knew was hurtful, and I knew was wrong even as I …
Owing it to myself…
Well I had a blog post all drafted out which I was getting ready to post, but then I was second-guessing myself …
What is Biblism?
In short, Biblism is a word that I have made up, for the attitude or belief that as Christians, our career is …
Thank you for your prayers…again
Once again I would like to thank the mysterious pray-er, if indeed there is anyone out there praying for me. As I …
When loneliness met the lioness
Well the initial point of this post was to talk about loneliness, but then I [the word temporarily escapes me – …
Talking about social media…
You know how people say that social media heightens people feeling of depression? Well ironically, I am extremely active on Facebook, but …
How did they get…from there to here?
Well a few hours ago I wrote a post on this blog, concluding by saying that I wanted to sleep, then read …
Integrity report: Explaining the concept of “mind-lies”, also thoughts on racism, sexual purity
TL; DR: Do not allow unholy or impure thoughts to grow in your mind. Rather, you need to brutally excise them with …
Couples who need to get back together: Finnish PM Sanna Marin and her handsome husband Markus Raikkonen
(Please note, I have not watched the video above, I have linked it as it was the first video I could find …
Speaking of Community…
Well I’ve just recently watched this video on YouTube. I agree with each and every point that this man has made here, …
Clarifying my remarks: to make it clear I have big time for everyone!
You know, not too long ago I wrote about “yes” and “no” people. Actually I updated those names, and cannot now remember …
Talking once again about the physical attraction thing…
You know, I was thinking recently about how I used to be physically attracted to a certain guy. I went on and …
Dear Mr “Someone”, I need to let you know that I have all the time in the world for you!
I did write this in my last post which I have just published, but it is buried towards the end, possibly missable, …
Once again, I’m asking myself: “Is this real?!”
Well literally just yesterday, (or actually the day before now) I posted a post here asking whether some feelings that had descended …
Is this truly real? Or am I making it up?! 🤣🤣🤣
This is one of those posts which I am going to really struggle to articulate. This is because and only because I …
Why there is so much error in the church – apart from all the reasons I have already mentioned!
Well a few days ago I came across this YouTube video and shared it on my Facebook profile: How The Megachurch Destroyed …
Relax girl, God’s got this – if you give it to Him!
Of late, there has been a particular situation in my life which has been somewhat…interesting! I have been praying about it, but …
Talking about disdain…again
Well I was casually minding my own business, and then some thoughts came into my mind about a certain someone whom I …
To blog…or to sleep?!
I have written many times on this blog about how I often blog when I should be asleep. This is because my …
I aspire to this level of maturity. Wow.
So I was doing my daily perusal of YouTube, and I came across this video. I initially clicked on it because it …
Practising compassion towards people I have left in the past, establishing new vital vocabulary and also possibly creating a new subblog…
As I was “working along” today, I was thinking again, reflecting on the fact that many of the people I have encountered …
This week from Reddit: The husband and the laundry hamper
So I have just been reading some AITA relationship posts from Reddit. The particular story that I would like to talk about …
Open letter to my future husband
I just really want to say, I really want this! By the way, this is probably the shortest letter that I will …
Do you really believe? [HUGE RANT]
DEFINITION: When I talk here about “Evangelical Christians”, I am chiefly talking about some people I met at university, at the Christian …
Talking about Tithing, again
Well I just finished watching a sermon on tithing, and I just want to quickly pen down some words. Firstly let me …
When humility finally strikes
[Other posts to write: Practising sexual consent within marriage, also needing to be attuned to my husband. My alternative to “falling in …
Talking candidly about sex, PS
Well I wrote that post, and I was confident as I was writing it. But then overnight I was struck with a …
Dear Church, it is time to give our all to our God
I really should be in bed right now, and I hate being irresponsible with my bedtimes. However I felt this strong compulsion …
Talking candidly about sex
TL:DR; One of my many, many, prayers about sex is that God would empower my husband and me to be candid with …
Crying over what I don’t have
Well I have just recently read a post about the “gender pay gap” when it comes to buying a house. And you …
The Church Conundrum, PS
Well…I’ve just spoken once again to my father tonight. And we discussed going to church and he asked me whether I was …
Crushes versus true emotional compatibility
Whenever I have been hit by a crush, it has always been quite a big thing. I have had 2 humongous crushes …
Frustration!
(Once again, I would like to thank anyone who might have been praying for me. Honestly, I cannot begin to tell you …
New humility mantra
I know that the word “mantra” has connotations specifically from another faith. This can also be called an “affirmation” or a “declaration”. …
The wrongest possible way to be “in the right”!
Before I start, I would once again like to thank anyone who might be praying for me. The rate at which understanding …
Cracking the church conundrum…
So I went to a church for the last two Sundays, on 12th February and then a week later on 19th February. …
Thank you for your prayers! Or, Prayer is my love language
You know, this weekend I had really hoped to spend some time writing a few blog posts. Time has truly run away …
Please disturb me!
Well I have just written a post where once again I referred to the fact that I am ambitious. And I was …
The question is not whether or not it is “true love”. The question is whether or not they are truly worth loving
Apologies this post is a little bit all over the place. It is essentially in brain dump format, rather than the format …
How to say “No” – yet further thoughts
I was just reading through an external article about being assertive. Actually, I just read the first part of the post. Assertiveness …
The problem with men…[or Please rescue me Mr Huggie-Wuggie!]
On this blog, I have often stated, very matter-of-factly, that guys fall for me very easily. I have not been bragging about …
Dealing with feelings of jealousy
TL:DR; We are all made in the image of God, we all have unique potentials and capabilities. I LOVE to see people …
Unconditional love versus selflessness
Over the last 11 months since the war in Ukraine started, I have been posting daily prayer requests to my Facebook account. …
Non-confrontational? (For want of a better title) – or offering pre-emptive explanations
As I have recently written on this blog, I am extremely busy at the moment. lf anything that was an understatement, which …
Condescending
Let me put my hands up and admit that I do this – a lot! In fact, a heck of a lot. …
Dear Mr Potential Huggie-Wuggie, will you please sing for me?!
If as a man you are reading this, you might sometimes be tempted to think that I only care about my own …
A fairly terrible story (Will poss think of better title later)
Well I’ve just read a fairly terrible story which got me thinking…a woman was suddenly ditched by her boyfriend, out of the …
Post Ideas: Fri 6th January 2023
[Sorry, this post has not had even an initial edit. I have been writing it in such a tired state, and now …
Different post thoughts
It is past 3.00 am as I start this post and I so need to be sleeping! However, I have already been …
Dealing with social pressure to spend money
TL;DR: I simply unfriend people Typing as someone who is proud to be a Nigerian, and grateful to be a Christian, I …
There’s something about vanlifers…
So yeah, I’ve been watching lots of vanlife videos over the last few months. I’ve been considering vanlife for myself because of …
Recommended relationship schedule
1. Evaluate for character. In practice, this will be via two-yearing. This might sound like a huge waste of time, and as …
And…back to the blog, again!
Wow it has been so long since I directly posted here on blog.huggie-wuggie.com. This is largely because I have been posting on …
Thinking about post-wedding dating
[A reminder to everyone, just in case this post does not make sense: as born again Christians we aim to avoid pre-marital …
The difference between love and lust – again?!
Here I am writing out this post…again! You know, I think I’ve finally got it, after such a long time of trying …
Falling in love [versus working out love]
Please note, I have written a post about something similar to this recently. As I am working through this idea in my …
How I am planning not to fall prey to domestic abuse by the grace of God
To make it clear, the previous post is about domestic abuse, which is what triggered the idea of writing this post. You …
Yet another reason to choose character over “falling madly in love”
Thankfully this particular story turned out to have a happy ending, because she lived to tell the tale. And yet so many …
Back again banging my favourite drum!
So here I am again, reading another article on Reddits Am I the A**hole forum. Short story: the ostensible reason for the …
Looking for a polite way to say “Please kindly keep your unsolicited opinions to yourself!”
This post is not about marriage, but is rather about my expressing a pet peeve of mine, and trying to work out …
Romantic Love is a lie! (Quote me!)
OK I must admit, I’ve got a bit of a bee in my bonnet about this particular subject. I feel as if …
Marriage at cross purposes
[ Or – Undoubtedly one reason why I am still single! – Men could be all feminist on the outside. However, deep …
Money!
I was just thinking about all the money I have made over the years, and comparing that to my bank balance, and …
Offering the gift of sex
I’ve written so many posts about ahem, sex, and yet here I am blushing away to write another one! The fact is …
How life is like a treadmill
What I am trying to communicate in this post: Giving 100% does not mean constantly sprinting, you will get a lot further …
Thinking about “Rationality”
I’ve just been watching some YouTube “text exchange” videos. To be clear, it is not that that is an official name, I’ve …
Let’s talk about the wonders of Heaven!
[BIBLE VERSES TO FOLLOW] Please note that when I use the term “Heaven” in this particular post, I am using it to …
Let’s talk about…making an effort
Off the top of my head, the fact that the guy failed to make an effort is the reason I have ended …
Let’s talk about why the Prosperity Gospel is evil
I’ve recently watched two videos on YouTube about the Prosperity Gospel. And I thought that I would finally start writing a post …
Operation “Give the Man What He Wants”!
TLDR: Baby boy, I promise that as far as God helps me, you’re not going to know what hit you – in …
Regrets about rudeness
You know what? I think it’s time that I finally apologised for my rudeness towards various people. Now this is a hard …
Don’t settle for love ladies! Insist on strong character instead!
Capitalism – how that is our enemy Love – or rather professions of love, are the cheap alternative to character. All a …
What is most important is who they are, rather than how much they love you
I’ve been reading a few more relationship articles, and I have been remembering, again, that someone’s suitability for a relationship is decided …
Sorry for calling Christians rude names, my conclusion is: Be gracious to other Christians, but do not automatically trust them
You know what? For a while now, months if not years, guilt has been eating up at me regarding a post that …
The Queen of Social Awkwardness strikes ***yet*** again!
[Please note: this post is currently so unedited that it is still in “stream of consciousness” mode, ie writing down all the …
Let’s talk about…decision paralysis
“Ponder the path of your feet, And let all your ways be established.” [Also, is a “child-less” life selfish?] You know, one …
But why are people so gullible though?
You know, I think I would naturally fit into the description of a monarchy pragmatist. At heart, I am or should be …
Reddit real life story: Messy husband
Here in this post I will share a real life story that I found on Reddit (Am I the A**hole, where people …
Thoughts on “Religion” and whether or not there is a God
So I’ve just been reading another post on Reddit. I have been mentioning Reddit a lot recently, and there is a good …
Mr Malcolm’s List versus Miss Tosin’s List (SPOILERS)
(Or why I have a list, and you definitely need one too!) Well I have recently taken myself to the cinema and …
Avoiding cheating
Well a few hours ago on Medium I was reading an article about how to spot the signs of cheating. And that …
Confused.me
This is one of those posts that may well be confusing because I am trying to process so many thoughts. Well I …
Confusing but candid post
This is one of those topics which I find complicated to tease out in my mind. However, in terms of marriage it …
Understanding Faith and class and marriage
This post has such a benign sounding title. But please be warned, it is extremely angry, and it is emphatically unflattering about …
Let’s talk about manipulation
When thinking about this post, I was asking myself once again whether I might have manipulative tendencies. The answer to that is, …
How to say “No”, an amendment
I was recently thinking about the topic of manipulation and thinking that I might have to write a post on that. In …
Tosin’s definitely, definitely not superficial list of period drama actors
This is one of those dubious posts that I sometimes write where my sensible mind is thinking “Tosin, really?!” So there are …
Thinking about romance writing
Well, as I recently related on Facebook, I have recently come across another sweet and lovely true life love story, which I …
In which I am definitely not ranting about yet another church!
So yes, I have recently left yet another church. Prior to this I had not been part of a church for years. …
Let’s talk about…love-bombing
I’m SO tired just now! I’m going to try to get the points of this post down as quickly as possible, then…I’m …
Actually, I’m a low-tempo kinda person
How humorous it is that out of all the blog posts I’ve been mentally drafting, this one should win – all the …
Ask yourself: what is it that you want to be successful at?
Ah, relationship goals. As far as I know, that was not really a phrase back then, as in it was not the …
How to say “No” – that is, how ***I*** truly learned to say “No”
Too long, didn’t read: When you learn to identify true friends in your life, then suddenly saying “No” to everyone else becomes …
Grumbling, moi?!
You know what, I have been deeply shaken by the war in Ukraine. I have no end of admiration for President Volodymyr …
Remembering the past
I’ve just been viewing Facebook pictures of a dear couple from church. Does anyone recognise what I am about to describe? Although …
Thinking about…friendships
So yeah, something “interesting” happened in one of my friendships. I had a big argument with someone, and here a few months …
Merry Christmas 2021
This is the cutest presentation of the Christian Gospel I have ever seen: this video clip has really made my Christmas this …
Choosing to be Soulmates – or what is love, actually?
I think that I have recently realised something that is extremely important – no, desperately important about love. That is this: that …
Cheesy Christmas movie warrants a long overdue blog post!
OK so here’s the thing! I have not posted on this blog in a long time! Actually the last post I wrote …
Completely out of character?
Yeah, I have not posted on here in ages! On the other hand, I completed my “Nidhra and Pradha” story, which is …
Quickpost: The importance of family background
OK, I have not posted here for almost two months. I have been constantly thinking of ideas though. I just have not …
QUICKPOST: Thought-provoking external post: An Indian-American divorce
https://www.elle.com/culture/movies-tv/a35865843/indian-matchmaking-indian-divorce/?utm_source=pocket-newtab-global-en-GB I’ve just read this though-provoking post about the break-up of a marriage, written by the wife, where both spouses happen to …
QUICKPOST: Why do people (men) say that men are more logical than women?!
OK, this is a sincere question, which I am going to try to answer in this post myself: I sincerely do not …
QUICKPOST: Why I’m secretly dreaming of a “lazy” husband
If you are a man, and a potential romantic interaction between us had progressed to the point where we were now actively …
QUICKPOST: On the Meghan Markle Malarkey and talkin’ bout tall guys
Oh wow, I have not written here for almost a month (barring a post which I decided to make private). A very …
But surely, I’m better than *nothing*!
Have you ever been in a situation with someone….who refuses to get the message, that you are not interested in building any …
What happiness means to me
Time for one of those spontaneous posts, methinks! I have just been reading a few posts on the BBC site about what …
Let’s talk yet again about alcohol!
Note to readers: Please bear with me, this post is very much in the cut and paste stage, where I am just …
External Post: “How my teenage friendships impacted my adult romantic relationships”
Of late I have often suspected that my youthful weakness in friendships might contribute to my adult confusion in romantic relationships. And …
External Post: I Had a Damned Good Reason for Leaving My Perfect Husband
This tender but sad love story excellently demonstrates why you need to be honest with yourself and your spouse before getting married …
Thinking of instability, thanking for instability
So a few hours ago on Christmas day, here I was sitting at my desk, wanting to type out a festive post. …
Fed up of cooking?
SUPER SPONTANEOUS! BIG DISCLAIMER: Apart from the “baked camembert”, I’ve not actually tried any of the recipes I’ve linked to on this …
Compatibility and Commitment
You know, I’ve been kinda obsessed with character for a long time on this blog! However I have just read an article …
Marrying my best friend versus speaking the soulmate language
This is yet another one of those posts that occurred to me late at night… Firstly, I realised that what I have …
Enough is Enough! Social Justice Thoughts
Well almost three years ago to the day, I wrote a post stating that I wanted to set up a social justice …
Pursuing Christlikeness is Everything. Really
[I was originally going to call this post “Character is King.” Well after writing it, I will amend that to this: “Character …
Forgiveness: The Difference between “Forgiveness” and “Forgiveness”
Apologies, this post might be somewhat triggering for domestic violence. Like “Infatuation”, Forgiveness is a topic I have tried to write about …
Radical Commitment to Christ?!
OK Christians, please be honest here! What is the first thing that goes through your mind when I suggest a radical commitment …
Let’s talk more about community!
So I’m just sitting here thinking/praying “Lord, I’m lonely! And I really don’t know how to deal with it!” In a way …
Tosin, The No-Drama Queen!
Apologies, this post is a bit rambly, I’ve just literally poured out everything on my mind! OK, I’ve just literally been up …
And….back to the blog!
Over the last one and a half years, I have tried a radical new format for “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie”. However I don’t …
What Community means to me…
Well, it really has been a while! I was thinking overnight about how deeply my heart beats for community. Actually prior to …
Brand new project: CLASSICALIS
I know I’ve been quite quiet on this blog of late. All the same, I have been working away if not directly …
Spontaneous post: And so it finally happened…
…that my long-suffering parents finally decided to step up their respective games of “Let’s get Tosin married!” For the first time really, …
An idea…
I’m sure that many readers will have heard, read, or watched the uploaded video of the incident between Amy Cooper and Christian …
UPDATED: A way forward for “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” 02 May 2020
02 May 2020I hope everyone is keeping well in these COVID-challenged times. I wanted to share a few further thoughts I have …
Happy 9th Birthday to this Blog!
So it was the 9th birthday of this blog last month, but I could not log in because I was locked out….and …
Rewriting the mental health post
MENTAL HEALTH:I have to rewrite the original post because I do not think I did a good enough job of communicating compassion. …
Shyness in crushes and reasons for attraction
So here I am writing a somewhat ill-advised late night post. A while ago I established that for myself it was a …
What “Unconditional Love” truly means for a Christian
This is a post that I have been trying to write for a very long time, but I’ve been seriously struggling with …
A sexist man’s dilemma…
This is one of my spontaneous posts, and it is one of those posts that may well disappear from this blog once …
My values
These are my values that I believe people need to be aware of before reading this blog. 1. Firstly I am a …
Why I have not been praying for my marriage
I’ve just gotten off the phone to a dear Aunty who is setting up a ministry for mature single women. Oh man, …
Who this blog is not for
This post is a little tongue-in-cheek, but it is also quite serious. I was inspired to write this post after rereading an …
Most Radical Ideas
Last updated: 27th November 2022 I believe that this blog has a few ideas which are deeply, deeply radical. I believe that …
How to read this blog: Last updated 29 Dec 2019
Trying to work out a suitable and user-friendly way of navigating this blog has been possibly the biggest challenge I have faced …
Why you should read this blog! Last Updated 28th Dec 2019
PLEASE NOTE: This post is an extremely important post. However the thoughts are on it are expressed a little haphazardly just now. …
Why you should read this blog! Last Updated 28th Dec 2019
PLEASE NOTE: This post is an extremely important post. However the thoughts are on it are expressed a little haphazardly just now. …
Tosin’s Decluttering (Sub)Blog – Post 1
Man, I was so determined to write a post today! I was thinking something “Huggie-Wuggie”, but nothing seemed to really click – …
Finally getting to blog!
Wow, my last post on this blog was even longer ago than I realised! Man, how I have itched to publish a …
Late night ponderings: male colleagues, tube strangers and the friendzone
Oh Huggie-Wuggie, how I’ve missed you! Firstly, apologies in advance if this post is a whole heap of incoherent nonsense – I’ll …
Talking about…Josh H
Josh H is one of the biggest inspirations behind this blog. His book “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” has deeply (deeply!) influenced my …
Talking about…Josh H
Josh H is one of the biggest inspirations behind this blog. His book “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” has deeply (deeply!) influenced my …
I’m back!
So here I am back on Huggie-Wuggie. To be honest I’ve got a few big decisions to make about how to move …
Offlining!
I’m going to be taking a break from posting on this blog for the whole month of September, and possibly also the …
Eureka! I have found it!!!
(Or rather, God has given it to me!!! No, not a husband!!!!) As I was literally just creating my previous post here, …
OK, I know I said “coming soon”, and I do mean that, but…
OK, I know I said “coming soon”, and I do mean that, but… [Perhaps this is completely irrelevant to most people, but …
Stonking New Year’s prayer for myself
So I plan to share here a no-holds-barred prayer for myself that unapologetically asks God for absolutely everything maritally, every last thing …
Dealing with toxic people
Well I was just reading yet another post about how to deal with “toxic people”. And here are a few thoughts on …
Christmas Postings!
Well today has been Christmas Day 2018, and I have been somewhat determined to post a post today! But somehow the hours …
Why women should be the ones running away from the bouquet
https://www.facebook.com/Pretty52Official/videos/297027887757841/ This article seriously needs links to validate my various claims: I hope to add some shortly, perhaps over the Christmas break! …
The problem with the Church – or “Only perfect men need apply!” or Why my husband needs to be “perfect”
The Bible assumes sincerity. Certain instructions in the Bible assume sincerity – like a chemical reaction. Don’t be surprised if there is …
Trying not to say “the D word”…
A few provisos before I launch into this post proper. This post is quite spontaneous, so please forgive me if it lacks …
Half-married already! AND Expecting too much?
Post 1: Half-married already! Well after just writing this last post in which I desperately tried not to actually say anything of …
Needing “Mr Huggie-Wuggie” the blog, not the man!
(Well of course I need the man too, it’s just that in this post my focus is on the blog rather than …
True love story: Barack and Michelle (external link)
Article Link here I have so much respect for this couple and for their marriage. Their marriage seems to be a true …
True love story: Matt and Laura (external link)
Well after all those horror stories for Halloween, here is one beautiful story of seeming true love: this couple Matt and Laura …
Horror Stories for Halloween 4: More Kings and Queens
Here are a few more articles about potential horror stories in relationships. From Trophy wives to toxic wives: This article talks about …
Horror Stories for Halloween 3: The Unexpected Proposal
Yes, I know that Halloween is well and truly over, but the horror within relationships continues! Thankfully the issue discussed in this …
Horror Stories for Halloween 2a: Kings and their Queens
So this is a Halloween Relationship Horror story with a difference: What if the man you married always treated you perfectly, like …
Horror Stories for Halloween No 1: Hell
This is really not what I had in mind when I was talking about Horror Stories for Halloween. However, I think that …
Horror Stories for Halloween – Introduction
Well if I was to start talking about Halloween, and I was to start talking about my faith, perhaps some people would …
Making some changes!
I am currently making some changes to the appearance of this blog. I am tweaking some settings etc. So please do not …
And so we have SSL! (HTTPS://)
So a SSL certificate has recently been activated on this site, and this blog has now been transferred to the https protocol. …
Humbilify! – Updated
EDIT ADDED 5TH OCTOBER 2018 Well in the two days it has been since I wrote this post, I have actually been …
Well today…or the power of praying
Well today has been a seriously “interesting” day, and not in a good way. This is an old-fashioned term, but I’ve definitely …
Let’s talk about R.E.S.P.E.C.T!
OK, just a little disclaimer before I start this post. The title of this post is taken from the Aretha Franklin song, …
Overcoming my dermatillomania (please Lord!)
So today I would like to talk about something that to be honest, I would much rather not have to admit to. …
Statistically speaking…
So today, I was reading an article about cognitive biases. These are the errors of logic, judgement or reasoning which we are …
Updated 22nd July: The ever-growing, but definitive list of Essential Criteria for my husband
Addlog: ********** 22 July 2018 Someone who will pull his own weight domestically, without needing to be asked, begged or nagged ********** …
Love versus infatuation: I think I finally get it!
Well just a few days ago, I was sadly reflecting to myself that despite all these years of thinking, reading, reflecting – …
So I read some posts today!
PREAMBLE Well today I was reading some stories online about what people have experienced in their relationships. On one hand, these were …
“Doing the chasing”, versus mental and emotional health
I’ve been thinking a lot about mental health recently, both within and outside the topic of relationships. Thankfully God has blessed me …
Becoming Mrs Outstanding
I really don’t have much time to put together a post today, so this is going to have to be very short …
But what do we have in common?!
I was just thinking about this concept while sitting on public transport a few hours ago, and these are the thoughts that …
Sorry for the recent silence!
Sorry for the recent silence on this blog everyone! I’ve faced a few acute challenges in terms of being busy, and over …
Overcoming loneliness, a possible solution (please Lord!)
This is quite a spontaneous post. Apologies if it does not really make sense, I am going to have to reflect on …
To blog or not to blog?!
Well I had hoped and confidently expected that I would be able to write a post over this bank holiday weekend. You …
Overcoming Loneliness – 2nd Edit
I really should be fast asleep just now. In fact, I find myself in exactly the same circumstance I was in earlier …
Things I need to work on: Practising Kindness
This is something I have been thinking of for ages! Like years and years and years – since before I wrote *that* …
In defence of essential criteria lists
Well yesterday I read an article which argues that it is unrealistic and impractical to have lists of essential criteria for your …
My name is Tosin and…(Random Ramblings)
(Actually most much of the time these days my name is not Tosin – but that is a different story!) So… my …
Happy 7th Birthday to Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
Yep, it’s been seven good years of writing this blog! And here I am as single as ever! I’m trying to cast …
Happy Valentine’s Day 2018!
Wishing all readers of this blog a Happy Valentine’s Day, and week! I hope that you’ve all had an amazing day. For …
As with relationships, so with friendships – learning to be extremely fussy!
And so here we are at the point when I am finally asserting that when it comes to friendships, you have to …
10 Empowering New Year Prayers for Singles for 2018
So it is the beginning of yet another New Year, and you are still single! Well you’re in great company! (Points at …
→ January 14, 2018
1. The “Friendship” blog should actually have two distinct categories: “Friends” for dealing with people who are actually friends, and “People” for …
10 Beautiful New Year Prayers for your Marriage
New years are a great time to take stock, and look back in gratitude for the year that has just ended, and …
Friendships/People: Super Spontaneous!
These thoughts are literally just occurring to me now, when I’m supposed to be doing other things! Thoughts that occurred to me: …
Friendship: But we agreed!
I just spontaneously wanted to write this post to express some of the irks I feel about friendships. Before I jump into …
Friendship: Making a start!
Well I finally started my social justice blog, and now for the turn of the friendship blog, which is also something I’ve …
Huggie-Wuggie: this time next year…
So here we are at the beginning of yet another new year… I can’t help wondering what this new year might bring …
Social Justice: Remembering my Materialistic Youth
Well I said that I would challenge myself to make a start on this social justice blog before the end of this …
Happy New Year 2018
This post comes to wish all readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” a Happy New Year in 2018! I hope that you will …
Merry Christmas, and please help with this new blog idea!
I would really like to wish all the readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” an amazing Christmas season, or what remains of it. …
When faith dies
Let me start off by reassuring any readers that no, my faith has not died. And by the grace of God it …
Bible Verse: 1 John 4v18
1 John 4v18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear. Photo by Mbll on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 John 4v8
1 John 4v8 God is love. Photo by Geralt on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 John 4v7
1 John 4v7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God, and everyone who loves is born of God …
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v13
1 Corinthians 13:13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love. Photo by Bess-Hamiti on …
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v8
1 Corinthians 13:8 Love never fails. Photo by Soorelis on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v7
1 Corinthians 13v7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Photo by Andreas Lischka on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v6
1 Corinthians 13v6 Love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth Photo by Jill Wellington on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v5b
1 Corinthians 13:5 Love is not provoked, thinks no evil Photo image by Komposita on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v5a
1 Corinthians 13v5 Love does not behave rudely, does not seek its own Image by Gino Crescoli on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v4c
1 Corinthians 13v4c Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up. Photo by Annca on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v4b
1 Corinthians 13v4 Love does not envy. Photo by Petra D. on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v4
1 Corinthians 13v4 Love is patient, love is kind. Photo by James Chan on Pixabay
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v3
1 Corinthians 13v3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be …
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v2
1 Corinthians 13v2 And though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. …
Bible Verse: 1 Corinthians 13v1
1 Corinthians 13v1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding …
Bible Verse: Proverbs 31v30
Proverbs 31:30 Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. Photo by Lillaby on Pixabay
Bible Verse: Proverbs 12v4
Proverbs 12:4 An excellent wife is the crown of her husband Photo by Pixel2013 on Pixabay
Bible Verse: Proverbs 4v7
Proverbs 4v7 “Wisdom is the principal thing; Therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.” Photo by Komposita on Pixabay
Bible Verse: Ecclesiastes 4v12
Ecclesiastes 4:12 “…And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” Photo by Conger Design on Pixabay
Bible Verse: Ecclesiastes 4v9
Ecclesiastes 4v9 Two are better than one, for they have a good reward for their labour Photo by Bess-Hamiti on Pixabay
Proverbs 14v1
Proverbs 14:1 The wise woman builds her house… Photo by 12019 on Pixabay
Proverbs 15v17
Proverbs 15:17 Better is a dinner of herbs, where there is love, than a fatted calf with hatred Photo by Nietjuh on …
Proverbs 31v30
Proverbs 31:30 But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised. Image by Monica Ly on Pixabay
Proverbs 18v22
Proverbs 18v22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from the LORD.Photo by Sylvia Tan on Pixabay
Amos 3v3
Amos 3:3 Can two walk together unless they are agreed? Photo by Bess-Hamiti on Pixabay
Sexual Purity as a Feminist choice
Well I recently came across a certain article. In it, the writer described how she had taken a vow of sexual purity …
Hello Again RSS!
Well just over two years after initially “disabling” RSS, I have now added it back to the site. (Actually, it never really …
Editing: Why it is so hard to find an outstanding spouse
So today I find myself in the position of wanting to make substantial changes to an existing post. But how to do …
What’s waiting for you at the end of your tether?
Quick answer: whatever you have prepared, so prepare well. This blog is not really the place for this particular post. However I …
Like father, like daughter!
Oh man, I just have to share with you verbatim what my Dad just said! Talking about the tragedy of the Texas …
Dear Lord, please grant me patience!
Or, Why do I have such acute emotional needs?! So I was sitting there just minutes ago, just casually and happily minding …
Trying to understand sex and sexuality
In this post I am going to try to talk about something that I have greatly struggled with for a very, very, …
Let’s talk about…power dynamics in relationships!
or, Why can’t you and I both be powerful?! Actually, before I launch into the post proper I have to confess that …
Please come back in 5 years time!
Well it turns out that thi s day of the year, October 16th, has historically been a very prolific date in the …
Still struggling with structure!
So here I am after writing this blog for 6 and a half years, still trying to create a systematic structure for …
What does it mean to let the man take the lead (in starting the relationship)?!!!
This is one of those spontaneous posts that just occurs to me and I feel like expressing. Whatever else I might “get” …
Found on Twitter! Single Christians be like…
I found this video via Twitter, and I thought it was great, so I’d like to share it with you all! [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyQiT96Xu_g&feature=youtu.be&a[/youtube]
Deep conditioning your marriage
I’ve recently been getting into looking after my natural afro hair. But I’m trying to find a quick, easy, inexpensive way of …
How do you know he is not going to beat you?!
Related in a way to the previous question, “How do you know he is not going to be unfaithful?”… This really is …
How do you know he’s not going to be unfaithful..?
Someone once asked me how I knew that my husband was not going to be unfaithful. And I just stared! It is …
The Lie of Capitalism
I know what you might be thinking: “Tosin, what is a post about Capitalism doing on your Huggie-Wuggie blog?! Have you possibly …
Internet Dating: Postscript
I initially published this post back in 2012, then I unpublished it, for reasons which I have now completely forgotten… ————————————————————– A …
Hearts and Character
Well I have just written this post on my Bible blog, but I was feeling so riled and worked up about this …
Let’s talk about money, baby! Crunching the numbers
I’ve been thinking quite a lot about this since I published my earlier “let’s talk about money” posts: it’s all very well …
Why it is so hard to find an outstanding spouse: now edited
This post has been majorly revised, the new version is available here: https://huggie-wuggie.com/blog/editing-why-it-is-so-hard-to-find-an-outstanding-spouse/ I initially drafted out this post back in March …
Cringey Posts
I was recently reading/giggling through a certain post here, and thinking, for the hundredth time, just how cringey this post is! And …
Let’s talk about money baby! Accounting – further holes: large gifts
I’ve recently thought of a very significant further hole in the idea of spouses having individual accounts as well as communal family …
Let’s talk about money, baby! Accounting for our differences
In addition to the out and out bad character which I looked at in the other part to this post, these are some …
Running the race of Character
If you were asked to spontaneously run a race or obstacle course without any warning at all, then your achievement in the …
Let’s talk about money, baby! Character issues
Thinking about money, on one hand I can be extremely romantic! I will say about my husband: “Money doesn’t matter!” That is, …
Married versus single relationships blogger – which is better?!
I’ve just spent a few hours reading through another website; isn’t it funny how so many of us feel qualified to give …
Happy 6th Birthday to Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
This post is *so* long overdue! This blog turned six years old back in March! So yes, it has been six years! 6 …
My long-lasting relationships
Well after I had read the post referred to in my own previous post here on this blog, it got me thinking …
That thing when… (external post)
It has been so long since I last posted that I was honestly scared to look at the date of my last …
And so…
And so, I finally started writing out the post for “my determination for myself as a wife.” But guess what?! It is …
The “Looking Good” Thing
So here is an idea that I’ve been wanting to write about for a few months now. This idea is a little …
More thoughts on marital prayers
I’ve written so many posts here about how to pray for a marriage. I guess it would make sense for me to …
Rethinking this two year thing!
Well you know this weekend I could so have written two substantial Huggie-Wuggie posts – at least! But you know what I …
Dating your man after the wedding!
Well it has been a while since my last Huggie-Wuggie post, and I felt that I needed to explain to you all …
Born to submit to you (my darling)!
Well I don’t think that it is any secret that the Biblical theory of automatic submission from a wife to her husband …
How marriage is both conditional and unconditional
Here’s the thing: I believe that to a certain extent marriage has to be conditional. Unconditional love is one of absolutely the …
No Huggie-Wuggie Post today – sorry! :) :)
Well it’s been a little while since I wrote an article here on Huggie-Wuggie. This weekend I’ve been extremely keen to write …
A little bit of humility…
I’d like to apologise to anyone who has been reading this blog as I have not exactly been the epitome of humility …
Tosin’s List: Part 3: Desirable Characteristics
HUGE HUGE PROVISO! Before I publish this post, I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have …
Further Essential Characteristics 16 July 2016
TEMPORARY POST: To September 30 2016 This post expands the post “Essential Characteristics for my husband“ ———————————————————– A few further thoughts I …
Coming soon: Tosin’s List: My determination for myself as a wife
I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have to write a post about my own determination …
Tosin’s List Part 2: The Essential Characteristics
This is the second part to this post. Part 1: Why the List: Available here Part 2: The Essential Characteristics: THIS POST …
The Primacy of Friendship OR putting friendship first
This is an idea that has only really crystallised in my mind today. On this blog I have spoken so many times …
Tosin’s List! Part One – Why the List!
Edit: 2nd July 2016 Now that I’ve had a chance to think about this a bit more, I think that this post …
My biggest fear…just now!
Before launching into “my biggest fear”, a little admission. A few days ago I sat down and tried to write a blog post …
Aaaaaaand…back to the real world!
Well yesterday I published quite an excited post about how amazing everything is, and my beautiful dreams of a beautiful marriage, and …
Happy 5th Birthday to Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie!
So the fifth anniversary of this blog occurred all the way back in March! That’s five years of thinking about marriage, and …
The problem with “just leave”
Recently “Nigerian Facebook” (that is Facebook as used by people of Nigerian descent or association) has been alight with the story of …
Taking Marital Advice from a single woman?!
I recently came across a Facebook post about marriage. You know, one of those facebook posts giving all sorts of helpful encouraging …
Yet another “Haven’t posted for so long!” post! – Or, passionately in friendship
Well after what seems like months of not quite getting around to writing a post, I am in exactly that kind of …
A story that needs to be told – PS
This is a post script to my last post, available here. Well after writing my last post a few weeks ago, a …
A story that needs to be told…
Firstly, I really want to apologise if it seems that I have been blowing my own trumpet so much on this blog. …
Communication Meltdown!
Recently I found myself down one of those internet article rabbit holes, where I will almost compulsively start reading one article after another, …
The Character Characteristics
Well last night I wrote and published quite an angry post about unexciting aspects of male character that I would find hard …
The Characteristics aka Angry Ranting Post!
These are a few of the characteristics that I would love to find in a husband. However, these are also the characteristics …
Why it is so hard [for me] to find an outstanding spouse!
A little waffly preambleOh wow! I have not published any posts to this blog for months and months! In terms of actual …
Dear Mr Huggie-Wuggie: I wanna be your best friend!
Well following my little love story about best friends I’ve been dreaming a lot about a marriage where my husband and I …
PS – Talking about Adultery!
I’ve been reflecting on the post I recently wrote about adultery. I’m so sorry if I was graceless in my post. There …
Goodbye RSS!
After many years and thousands of feeds I have decided to disable the RSS feeds function on this site. The chief reason …
Talking about…adultery!
A few weeks ago I came across the following article, about a famous author who left his wife for another woman. Daily …
Fulfilling his needs!
Well I’ve just written a post which was indirectly all about trying to communicate my needs to my husband – as usual! …
Of husbands and husbandry
I’m sure most people will have come across the idea that women are supposedly irrational or overly emotional. Personally speaking, I have …
Apologies for confusing posts!
I’d like to apologise to anyone who finds my posts confusing! There are two big reasons why this might be (that currently …
Celebrating some amazing friends!
Despite being on this blog, this is a post that is purely about friendships, with people of either gender! So over the …
Let’s talk (again!) about doing the pursuing…
Apologies in advance: this is a particularly waffly post! It is a subject that I struggle to understand, so I have literally …
How to turn someone down
OK, now for the second part of this post: this is the matching part to the first post, how to ask someone …
How to ask someone out
There is now a matching post to this, “How to turn someone down” Well here I am, supposed to be working away. …
Let’s talk about…masturbation!
Ha ha ha, only joking, let’s not!Instead, please check out this incredible video on the subject from this year’s Rhetoric, by a …
Ignoring my Huggie-Wuggie?!
Well today I’ve got to admit that I was in two minds about whether to write a post here or not. On …
Shyness, post script
As a postscript to my previous post, there were a few extra things that occurred to me later. I must admit that …
Let’s talk about…shyness!!!
So it’s that thing where I have not written a post for quite a while on my blog, and for some reason …
To rekindle your fire, try rekindling your friendship!
Well I have been thinking as always about relationships. I can’t quite remember how the following thought process happened in my mind, …
Short Story: Mr and Mrs “Married Three Years”
Pretending to be asleep, I watched my husband as he prepared for the day ahead of him. Still seething from last night’s argument, …
Blaming my parents for everything…
Disclaimer/Confession: I actually thought of this post a few days ago, while I was typing out my last post. However, as I …
Body, Soul and Spirit!
The ideas I hope to express in this post first occurred to me months and months ago. However, they were some of the …
In hot pursuit
This post is a development of ideas I have expressed before. However I first thought of it in this light last night …
Deserving you – Postscript (And…Headphones!)
Well there was a very important postscript that occurred to me right after I wrote the previous post, Deserving You. It was …
Deserving you
The slogan on this graphic reads:“Only God can give you the love you’re looking for, and only God can give you the …
Coconuts!
This is not really a full post, but rather a quick anecdote. So I have finally been trying to get serious about …
External Link: 15 Things Ambitious Girls Do A Little Bit Differently When They’re Dating
I randomly came across this post online, and on reading it immediately identified with the points made there. 15 Things Ambitious Girls …
Building a Foundation for your singleness
This is the second attempt at writing this post. My mind is like jelly right now, perhaps because I have been eating …
What true care truly looks like
Yeah, it has been a bit of a while since I last wrote a post on either of my blogs. On one …
And also…those songs!
You know, after shutting off for the day, I’ve had to turn my computer back on just to make this post! So …
Talking about the day to day!
Well you know how I said that I might be winding down activity on this blog? And I explained the reason why?! …
Can I tell you something?!
This is a message for…surprise surprise – a certain someone!Can I tell you something?! I hope that this is not completely over …
Ode to a Hoodie
You know how I recently said that I might be winding up activity on this blog? Well I simply could not leave …
Rethinking this blog….
Well I’ve got some news for anyone who might follow this blog…I’m thinking of stopping or reducing blog posts on this blog, …
…But I was outstanding!
This is one of those (many, many) blog posts that occurred to me in that dreamy hinterland between sleep and wakefulness, where …
Marriage as a performance art
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE**********As with last week’s post, this post will be most relevant within marriage itself. However, it will be most useful to …
Talking about Vision!
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE**********I think that the ideas contained within this post are going to be most useful within marriage itself. However, it is …
External Link: Desiring God – “On My Wedding Day”
This beautiful post was shared by my sister on Facebook. I agree that it is a lovely idea for an engaged couple …
Deconstructing “I Love You”
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone who is at the point of exchanging declarations of love with someone else… ******************************************* …
Happy Resurrection Sunday 2015!
This post is to wish all readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” a lovely Resurrection Sunday 2015. Hallelujah, Christ is risen indeed! …
