Surviving Marriage to a Nigerian ‘Pastor’.. Our Wife: (My Story)- Part 1.. Surviving Marriage to a Nigerian Pastor (Part Two) No Hate …
As usual, it has been too, too long since I wrote a post here! I must apologise to anyone who has been …
Let me start by explaining the state that I am in while writing this post. I am kinda blushing from embarrassment but …
Land of the Silver Birch: link Well a few hours ago I was casually minding my own business. I can’t remember how …
Well Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone celebrating. I found myself in Morrison’s supermarket yesterday (Friday 13th Feb) looking for – a metal …
I’d really like to thank everyone who has been reading this blog. Posts like this one I’m about to write are quite …
I have previously stated on this blog that I watch lots of YouTube videos. Just now, my brain craves constant stimulation or …
I watch so many videos of women complaining about their husbands. So many, really. And despite everything I have written in all …
Image from Pixabay I have now closed the “New Thoughts subblog and reabsorbed all the posts there onto this blog. All the …
For a few admin reasons I am currently making a number of changes to this blog. Most of these changes are hopefully …
Image from Pixabay [Apologies to anyone who previously tried to read this post. I accidentally deleted most of it, leaving only the …
Image from Pixabay Yes, it truly has been a while this time! What I am about to describe is partially responsible for …
Image from Pixabay [Edit: I’m not sure I referred to his ethnicity in this post, but after writing it, I discovered to …
Well, here’s something I’ve always said, which is glaringly obvious on thinking about it. Simply this, there is only one God. And …
Image from Pixabay Well I’ve finally got an excuse for not putting images on my blog posts. The actual, true reason is …
Image from Pixabay Over the last few days, I have come across a few powerful ideas on relationships I would like to …
Image from Pixabay [EDIT: Fri 19th Dec 2025, as I am retrospectively adding images to this blog post, it occurs to me …
Image from Pixabay I did intend to write this as a post but then I got caught up in writing edits on …
Image from Pixabay [Edits to add: – Just like the economy needs some people to make poor spending choices to flourish through …
Thumbnail image from Pixabay Wow, it has been so long since I last wrote a blog post here. I feel a little …
Image from Pixabay [Edit: On rereading this post to add images on 20th December 2025, I realise that I did not actually …
Wow, it has been so incredibly long since I last wrote a post on this blog. Not because my fervour for these …
Man, of late I have been busy! Today I thought I might get an early night (ie, going to bed before 2 …
17 July 2024, lots of thoughts! This blog post is an attempt both to express my thoughts and to get them straight …
So in this post I am going to finally be fully honest. Actually, you know what? I have always been honest on …
So… I’ve been doing quite a lot of doomscrolling on YouTube in the last few months, with a special focus on the …
Yes, this would be another of those late night posts. However, I am going to be good and instead just tap out …
As of today 29 May 2024 the “Romance Writings” subblog is being discontinued. History’s Royal Highnesses: Cinderella is now available on a …
Posts that I have been thinking of writing, hope to get to soon: -False flag Christians: insincere but loud Christians, in essence …
*****Post originally published 24 April 2024***** ***** 17th May 2024, video taken 17th May 2024 So it occurred to me to not …
…and realising that that also flows over into why I struggle to find a husband. For the first time ever it occurs …
This is hopefully going to be a very quick post, because, once again, I am writing this late into the night – …
This is hopefully going to be a super quick post because I’ve got to get out of the house ASAP! It suddenly …
I’m so conscious that I have not posted for a few weeks now. I must confess that I am procrastinating a little! …
As I add this video, it occurs to me that I have not written an actual post for a while. Such is …
Well I have encountered a significant technical glitch this week, meaning that this week’s video is not truly a video but is …
So today I have as yet not been able to create my Sunday video, for quite good reasons. However, something occurred to …
I hope that everyone celebrating had a lovely day yesterday. ❤️❤️❤️
I make the point in the vid that I have been deliberately toning myself down to try to fit in to a …
Well I shot this video a few hours ago, and edited it. Since then however I have been busy with other work …
This update talks about a few blog post ideas that have been on my mind.
To correct something I said within the video: yes I have been writing down my blog post ideas pretty much since I …
And so it appears that I am going to resume writing posts directly on this subblog, after a hiatus of a few …
I’m trying to work out how to correctly phrase this: I mean that women are blaming men and men are blaming women…This …
This is a post I have written, or attempted to write, several times in the past. And I am writing it once …
1. Evaluate for character. In practice, this will be via two-yearing. This might sound like a huge waste of time, and as …
Wow it has been so long since I directly posted here on blog.huggie-wuggie.com. This is largely because I have been posting on …
I’ve written so many posts about ahem, sex, and yet here I am blushing away to write another one! The fact is …
So yes, I have recently left yet another church. Prior to this I had not been part of a church for years. …
Well almost three years ago to the day, I wrote a post stating that I wanted to set up a social justice …
Over the last one and a half years, I have tried a radical new format for “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie”. However I don’t …
I know I’ve been quite quiet on this blog of late. All the same, I have been working away if not directly …
I’m sure that many readers will have heard, read, or watched the uploaded video of the incident between Amy Cooper and Christian …
02 May 2020I hope everyone is keeping well in these COVID-challenged times. I wanted to share a few further thoughts I have …
So it was the 9th birthday of this blog last month, but I could not log in because I was locked out….and …
MENTAL HEALTH:I have to rewrite the original post because I do not think I did a good enough job of communicating compassion. …
This is one of my spontaneous posts, and it is one of those posts that may well disappear from this blog once …
I’ve just gotten off the phone to a dear Aunty who is setting up a ministry for mature single women. Oh man, …
This post is a little tongue-in-cheek, but it is also quite serious. I was inspired to write this post after rereading an …
Last updated: 27th November 2022 I believe that this blog has a few ideas which are deeply, deeply radical. I believe that …
PLEASE NOTE: This post is an extremely important post. However the thoughts are on it are expressed a little haphazardly just now. …
Oh Huggie-Wuggie, how I’ve missed you! Firstly, apologies in advance if this post is a whole heap of incoherent nonsense – I’ll …
Josh H is one of the biggest inspirations behind this blog. His book “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” has deeply (deeply!) influenced my …
OK, I know I said “coming soon”, and I do mean that, but… [Perhaps this is completely irrelevant to most people, but …
So I plan to share here a no-holds-barred prayer for myself that unapologetically asks God for absolutely everything maritally, every last thing …
Well I was just reading yet another post about how to deal with “toxic people”. And here are a few thoughts on …
Well today has been Christmas Day 2018, and I have been somewhat determined to post a post today! But somehow the hours …
https://www.facebook.com/Pretty52Official/videos/297027887757841/ This article seriously needs links to validate my various claims: I hope to add some shortly, perhaps over the Christmas break! …
The Bible assumes sincerity. Certain instructions in the Bible assume sincerity – like a chemical reaction. Don’t be surprised if there is …
A few provisos before I launch into this post proper. This post is quite spontaneous, so please forgive me if it lacks …
Post 1: Half-married already! Well after just writing this last post in which I desperately tried not to actually say anything of …
(Well of course I need the man too, it’s just that in this post my focus is on the blog rather than …
Article Link here I have so much respect for this couple and for their marriage. Their marriage seems to be a true …
Well after all those horror stories for Halloween, here is one beautiful story of seeming true love: this couple Matt and Laura …
Here are a few more articles about potential horror stories in relationships. From Trophy wives to toxic wives: This article talks about …
Yes, I know that Halloween is well and truly over, but the horror within relationships continues! Thankfully the issue discussed in this …
So this is a Halloween Relationship Horror story with a difference: What if the man you married always treated you perfectly, like …
This is really not what I had in mind when I was talking about Horror Stories for Halloween. However, I think that …
Well if I was to start talking about Halloween, and I was to start talking about my faith, perhaps some people would …
I am currently making some changes to the appearance of this blog. I am tweaking some settings etc. So please do not …
So a SSL certificate has recently been activated on this site, and this blog has now been transferred to the https protocol. …
EDIT ADDED 5TH OCTOBER 2018 Well in the two days it has been since I wrote this post, I have actually been …
Well today has been a seriously “interesting” day, and not in a good way. This is an old-fashioned term, but I’ve definitely …
OK, just a little disclaimer before I start this post. The title of this post is taken from the Aretha Franklin song, …
So today I would like to talk about something that to be honest, I would much rather not have to admit to. …
So today, I was reading an article about cognitive biases. These are the errors of logic, judgement or reasoning which we are …
Addlog: ********** 22 July 2018 Someone who will pull his own weight domestically, without needing to be asked, begged or nagged ********** …
Well just a few days ago, I was sadly reflecting to myself that despite all these years of thinking, reading, reflecting – …
PREAMBLE Well today I was reading some stories online about what people have experienced in their relationships. On one hand, these were …
I’ve been thinking a lot about mental health recently, both within and outside the topic of relationships. Thankfully God has blessed me …
I really don’t have much time to put together a post today, so this is going to have to be very short …
I was just thinking about this concept while sitting on public transport a few hours ago, and these are the thoughts that …
Sorry for the recent silence on this blog everyone! I’ve faced a few acute challenges in terms of being busy, and over …
This is quite a spontaneous post. Apologies if it does not really make sense, I am going to have to reflect on …
Well I had hoped and confidently expected that I would be able to write a post over this bank holiday weekend. You …
I really should be fast asleep just now. In fact, I find myself in exactly the same circumstance I was in earlier …
This is something I have been thinking of for ages! Like years and years and years – since before I wrote *that* …
Well yesterday I read an article which argues that it is unrealistic and impractical to have lists of essential criteria for your …
(Actually most much of the time these days my name is not Tosin – but that is a different story!) So… my …
Yep, it’s been seven good years of writing this blog! And here I am as single as ever! I’m trying to cast …
Wishing all readers of this blog a Happy Valentine’s Day, and week! I hope that you’ve all had an amazing day. For …
And so here we are at the point when I am finally asserting that when it comes to friendships, you have to …
So it is the beginning of yet another New Year, and you are still single! Well you’re in great company! (Points at …
1. The “Friendship” blog should actually have two distinct categories: “Friends” for dealing with people who are actually friends, and “People” for …
New years are a great time to take stock, and look back in gratitude for the year that has just ended, and …
These thoughts are literally just occurring to me now, when I’m supposed to be doing other things! Thoughts that occurred to me: …
I just spontaneously wanted to write this post to express some of the irks I feel about friendships. Before I jump into …
Well I finally started my social justice blog, and now for the turn of the friendship blog, which is also something I’ve …
So here we are at the beginning of yet another new year… I can’t help wondering what this new year might bring …
Well I said that I would challenge myself to make a start on this social justice blog before the end of this …
This post comes to wish all readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” a Happy New Year in 2018! I hope that you will …
I would really like to wish all the readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” an amazing Christmas season, or what remains of it. …
Let me start off by reassuring any readers that no, my faith has not died. And by the grace of God it …
1 John 4v18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear. Photo by Mbll on Pixabay
1 John 4v8 God is love. Photo by Geralt on Pixabay
1 John 4v7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God, and everyone who loves is born of God …
1 Corinthians 13:13 And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love. Photo by Bess-Hamiti on …
1 Corinthians 13:8 Love never fails. Photo by Soorelis on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Photo by Andreas Lischka on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v6 Love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth Photo by Jill Wellington on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13:5 Love is not provoked, thinks no evil Photo image by Komposita on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v5 Love does not behave rudely, does not seek its own Image by Gino Crescoli on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v4c Love does not parade itself, is not puffed up. Photo by Annca on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v4 Love does not envy. Photo by Petra D. on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v4 Love is patient, love is kind. Photo by James Chan on Pixabay
1 Corinthians 13v3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be …
1 Corinthians 13v2 And though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. …
1 Corinthians 13v1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding …
Proverbs 31:30 Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. Photo by Lillaby on Pixabay
Proverbs 12:4 An excellent wife is the crown of her husband Photo by Pixel2013 on Pixabay
Proverbs 4v7 “Wisdom is the principal thing; Therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting, get understanding.” Photo by Komposita on Pixabay
Ecclesiastes 4:12 “…And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” Photo by Conger Design on Pixabay
Ecclesiastes 4v9 Two are better than one, for they have a good reward for their labour Photo by Bess-Hamiti on Pixabay
Proverbs 14:1 The wise woman builds her house… Photo by 12019 on Pixabay
Proverbs 15:17 Better is a dinner of herbs, where there is love, than a fatted calf with hatred Photo by Nietjuh on …
Proverbs 31:30 But a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised. Image by Monica Ly on Pixabay
Proverbs 18v22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from the LORD.Photo by Sylvia Tan on Pixabay
Amos 3:3 Can two walk together unless they are agreed? Photo by Bess-Hamiti on Pixabay
Well I recently came across a certain article. In it, the writer described how she had taken a vow of sexual purity …
Well just over two years after initially “disabling” RSS, I have now added it back to the site. (Actually, it never really …
So today I find myself in the position of wanting to make substantial changes to an existing post. But how to do …
Quick answer: whatever you have prepared, so prepare well. This blog is not really the place for this particular post. However I …
Oh man, I just have to share with you verbatim what my Dad just said! Talking about the tragedy of the Texas …
Or, Why do I have such acute emotional needs?! So I was sitting there just minutes ago, just casually and happily minding …
In this post I am going to try to talk about something that I have greatly struggled with for a very, very, …
or, Why can’t you and I both be powerful?! Actually, before I launch into the post proper I have to confess that …
Well it turns out that thi s day of the year, October 16th, has historically been a very prolific date in the …
So here I am after writing this blog for 6 and a half years, still trying to create a systematic structure for …
This is one of those spontaneous posts that just occurs to me and I feel like expressing. Whatever else I might “get” …
I found this video via Twitter, and I thought it was great, so I’d like to share it with you all! [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyQiT96Xu_g&feature=youtu.be&a[/youtube]
I’ve recently been getting into looking after my natural afro hair. But I’m trying to find a quick, easy, inexpensive way of …
Related in a way to the previous question, “How do you know he is not going to be unfaithful?”… This really is …
Someone once asked me how I knew that my husband was not going to be unfaithful. And I just stared! It is …
I know what you might be thinking: “Tosin, what is a post about Capitalism doing on your Huggie-Wuggie blog?! Have you possibly …
I initially published this post back in 2012, then I unpublished it, for reasons which I have now completely forgotten… ————————————————————– A …
Well I have just written this post on my Bible blog, but I was feeling so riled and worked up about this …
I’ve been thinking quite a lot about this since I published my earlier “let’s talk about money” posts: it’s all very well …
This post has been majorly revised, the new version is available here: https://blog.huggie-wuggie.com/editing-why-it-is-so-hard-to-find-an-outstanding-spouse/ I initially drafted out this post back in March …
I was recently reading/giggling through a certain post here, and thinking, for the hundredth time, just how cringey this post is! And …
I’ve recently thought of a very significant further hole in the idea of spouses having individual accounts as well as communal family …
In addition to the out and out bad character which I looked at in the other part to this post, these are some …
If you were asked to spontaneously run a race or obstacle course without any warning at all, then your achievement in the …
Thinking about money, on one hand I can be extremely romantic! I will say about my husband: “Money doesn’t matter!” That is, …
I’ve just spent a few hours reading through another website; isn’t it funny how so many of us feel qualified to give …
This post is *so* long overdue! This blog turned six years old back in March! So yes, it has been six years! 6 …
Well after I had read the post referred to in my own previous post here on this blog, it got me thinking …
It has been so long since I last posted that I was honestly scared to look at the date of my last …
And so, I finally started writing out the post for “my determination for myself as a wife.” But guess what?! It is …
So here is an idea that I’ve been wanting to write about for a few months now. This idea is a little …
I’ve written so many posts here about how to pray for a marriage. I guess it would make sense for me to …
Well you know this weekend I could so have written two substantial Huggie-Wuggie posts – at least! But you know what I …
Well it has been a while since my last Huggie-Wuggie post, and I felt that I needed to explain to you all …
Well I don’t think that it is any secret that the Biblical theory of automatic submission from a wife to her husband …
Here’s the thing: I believe that to a certain extent marriage has to be conditional. Unconditional love is one of absolutely the …
Well it’s been a little while since I wrote an article here on Huggie-Wuggie. This weekend I’ve been extremely keen to write …
I’d like to apologise to anyone who has been reading this blog as I have not exactly been the epitome of humility …
HUGE HUGE PROVISO! Before I publish this post, I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have …
TEMPORARY POST: To September 30 2016 This post expands the post “Essential Characteristics for my husband“ ———————————————————– A few further thoughts I …
I want to make it clear that I know that I really, really, have to write a post about my own determination …
This is the second part to this post. Part 1: Why the List: Available here Part 2: The Essential Characteristics: THIS POST …
This is an idea that has only really crystallised in my mind today. On this blog I have spoken so many times …
Edit: 2nd July 2016 Now that I’ve had a chance to think about this a bit more, I think that this post …
Before launching into “my biggest fear”, a little admission. A few days ago I sat down and tried to write a blog post …
Well yesterday I published quite an excited post about how amazing everything is, and my beautiful dreams of a beautiful marriage, and …
So the fifth anniversary of this blog occurred all the way back in March! That’s five years of thinking about marriage, and …
Recently “Nigerian Facebook” (that is Facebook as used by people of Nigerian descent or association) has been alight with the story of …
I recently came across a Facebook post about marriage. You know, one of those facebook posts giving all sorts of helpful encouraging …
Well after what seems like months of not quite getting around to writing a post, I am in exactly that kind of …
This is a post script to my last post, available here. Well after writing my last post a few weeks ago, a …
Firstly, I really want to apologise if it seems that I have been blowing my own trumpet so much on this blog. …
Recently I found myself down one of those internet article rabbit holes, where I will almost compulsively start reading one article after another, …
Well last night I wrote and published quite an angry post about unexciting aspects of male character that I would find hard …
These are a few of the characteristics that I would love to find in a husband. However, these are also the characteristics …
A little waffly preambleOh wow! I have not published any posts to this blog for months and months! In terms of actual …
Well following my little love story about best friends I’ve been dreaming a lot about a marriage where my husband and I …
I’ve been reflecting on the post I recently wrote about adultery. I’m so sorry if I was graceless in my post. There …
After many years and thousands of feeds I have decided to disable the RSS feeds function on this site. The chief reason …
A few weeks ago I came across the following article, about a famous author who left his wife for another woman. Daily …
Well I’ve just written a post which was indirectly all about trying to communicate my needs to my husband – as usual! …
I’m sure most people will have come across the idea that women are supposedly irrational or overly emotional. Personally speaking, I have …
I’d like to apologise to anyone who finds my posts confusing! There are two big reasons why this might be (that currently …
Despite being on this blog, this is a post that is purely about friendships, with people of either gender! So over the …
Apologies in advance: this is a particularly waffly post! It is a subject that I struggle to understand, so I have literally …
OK, now for the second part of this post: this is the matching part to the first post, how to ask someone …
There is now a matching post to this, “How to turn someone down” Well here I am, supposed to be working away. …
Ha ha ha, only joking, let’s not!Instead, please check out this incredible video on the subject from this year’s Rhetoric, by a …
Well today I’ve got to admit that I was in two minds about whether to write a post here or not. On …
As a postscript to my previous post, there were a few extra things that occurred to me later. I must admit that …
So it’s that thing where I have not written a post for quite a while on my blog, and for some reason …
Well I have been thinking as always about relationships. I can’t quite remember how the following thought process happened in my mind, …
Pretending to be asleep, I watched my husband as he prepared for the day ahead of him. Still seething from last night’s argument, …
Disclaimer/Confession: I actually thought of this post a few days ago, while I was typing out my last post. However, as I …
The ideas I hope to express in this post first occurred to me months and months ago. However, they were some of the …
This post is a development of ideas I have expressed before. However I first thought of it in this light last night …
Well there was a very important postscript that occurred to me right after I wrote the previous post, Deserving You. It was …
The slogan on this graphic reads:“Only God can give you the love you’re looking for, and only God can give you the …
This is not really a full post, but rather a quick anecdote. So I have finally been trying to get serious about …
I randomly came across this post online, and on reading it immediately identified with the points made there. 15 Things Ambitious Girls …
This is the second attempt at writing this post. My mind is like jelly right now, perhaps because I have been eating …
Yeah, it has been a bit of a while since I last wrote a post on either of my blogs. On one …
You know, after shutting off for the day, I’ve had to turn my computer back on just to make this post! So …
Well you know how I said that I might be winding down activity on this blog? And I explained the reason why?! …
This is a message for…surprise surprise – a certain someone!Can I tell you something?! I hope that this is not completely over …
You know how I recently said that I might be winding up activity on this blog? Well I simply could not leave …
Well I’ve got some news for anyone who might follow this blog…I’m thinking of stopping or reducing blog posts on this blog, …
This is one of those (many, many) blog posts that occurred to me in that dreamy hinterland between sleep and wakefulness, where …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE**********As with last week’s post, this post will be most relevant within marriage itself. However, it will be most useful to …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE**********I think that the ideas contained within this post are going to be most useful within marriage itself. However, it is …
This beautiful post was shared by my sister on Facebook. I agree that it is a lovely idea for an engaged couple …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone who is at the point of exchanging declarations of love with someone else… ******************************************* …
This post is to wish all readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” a lovely Resurrection Sunday 2015. Hallelujah, Christ is risen indeed! …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is not specific to any relationship status, other than my own! ******************************************* This post is celebrating four years …
I have not yet written this week’s Huggie-Wuggie post. However I would love to share with you this video, which features the …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone else who might struggle with shyness. It might also be relevant for people who …
I know that this is most likely the wrong platform to use. I’m also worried that I might be building myself up …
Love is sitting quietly, hugging, saying nothing in absolute silence, having a conversation that is communicated entirely through looks and hugs. ———————————————————————– …
Love is… sitting outside… [redacted: too much information!]… revelling in an abundance of friendly affection and tender memories: “Do you remember when?!”; …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone else who also struggles with awkwardness as I do. In terms of stages it …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to people who are considering whether to get married, for instance people who …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is really just about trying to find yet another creative way to thank the person who might have …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this idea would be most helpful for people who are married ******************************************* This is really cute. I …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This very brief post was written to reassure readers that I was fine, despite not posting on my blogs for …
I just came across this site that is dedicated to supporting women who struggle with pornography and sexual addiction. Dirty Girl Ministries
…And unto my second post of the evening that has in part been inspired by “Christian Romantic Fiction”. Just a quick observation. …
For reasons that regular readers of this blog will probably not be able to eventually escape reading about, (again and again and …
You don’t genuinely care, about me, or God. You are just interested in adding some extra multicultural kudos to your prayerless gathering, …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is relevant for anyone else who also goes to church, examining a few similarities between “church” and “a …
How could I have forgotten this in my super long post?! Yeah, that song!!!! That beautiful and incredible song! Just wow. I …
This is the second entry in my “Fat Hints” category, and thankfully it is a lot shorter than the first one: I …
I think I’m actually going to dedicate a category here on this blog to big fat hints, starting with this post! I’ve …
This is the final “December” post that was chosen in the poll of December posts to write. If anyone follows either of …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to anyone who might be wishing to have a marriage made in heaven, …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** If what I describe in this post is truly how many of us “fall in love”, then I think that …
Why Marriage is harder than ever (in the US)
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is such a personal post – ha ha ha! Possibly an example (yet another one!) of how to be …
This post comes to wish all readers of “Finding Mr Huggie-Wuggie” a Happy New Year! Wishing you all the best for a …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** As this is an open letter to my husband, it is quite a personal post about my life, so it …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is most relevant for women who are single and looking, encouraging them to insist on …
Dear Lord, If there really is someone out there praying for me; investing his time, effort and determination to make a deeply …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think this post is most relevant for people who are single and ambitious. It provides a new way of …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** Once again this post concerns general sexual purity, so I believe that it is generally useful for everyone no matter …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This is not about any particular relationship stage but is written to encourage sexual purity at any stage. ******************************************* Guilt …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is relevant to all relationship stages, but most useful before marriage to help get a …
Dear Huggie-Wuggie Reader, I would please appreciate your input in choosing the posts to write for December. A number of exciting post …
Please choose 4 answers. The top 4 answers will get written up as posts. Closing Date for votes is Thursday 27th November …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post will hopefully challenge people to imagine what it would be like to be married to them, so I …
1. How to encourage someone to be the best they can be 2. I want to be so beautiful for you, my …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I think that this post is most relevant for people who are single and looking, struggling with feelings for one …
Dear {field1}, I hope this week is going excellently for you! Lots of exciting things have been happening here at Huggie-Wuggie Central …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** This post is about evaluating someone‘s personality and character before getting romantically involved with them, so I’d say it is …
1. Married to myself: Woman in china, recent woman, etc WRITTEN 2. Welcome to the friendzone!WRITTEN 3. Relationship ambivalence – can’t remember …
Well I’ve just written out a blog post just to try to express my thoughts regarding this “awkward thing”. To be honest, …
Wow, as I sit here typing at this post, I am giggling away, for a number of reasons. A significant reason is …
**********RELATIONSHIP RELEVANCE********** I’d say that this post is most relevant for people who are single, or who might be going out with …
Please check out this video of one of my relatives discussing her views on sexuality! [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v_BESQP_0W8[/youtube]
This is a postscript that I have been meaning to add ever since I wrote the last post on “Two Years”. There, …
This is a quick post asking for some reader input on the following issue: My biggest struggle with this blog is to …
I would like to start this post with what is now becoming a customary thank you to whoever may be praying for …
This is a short addition to the existing thoughts I have already expressed about playing hard to get. One further reason why …
Well I was thinking away about people in general, and remembering some issues I found myself having to shake my head. I …
In this post I would like to offer a few thoughts on why … people don’t listen How women make themselves cheap …
In this post, I would like to offer further clarification about the “true concern” post. As I was originally writing that post …
This post is directed towards any man who could potentially become my very own Mr Huggie-Wuggie, to explain myself and my possible …
These are further useful prayers to pray for my spouse and marriage. In prayer I roughly subdivide my time between the 3 …
I was thinking recently over some of the thoughts that I have expressed here, and a few other ideas. And something that …
In this post I am going to address something that should really be central to this blog, but is not. That is, …
In this post, I would like to present to you something which has been my ongoing, quiet nightmare for a while. …
I’ll admit that the title of this post is quite unusual! For many years, I’ve been puzzling over the idea of prayer …
Well I recently wrote a post where I thanked an unknown someone for praying for me. I’ve been meaning to write a …
Please check out this beautiful rendition of poetry about waiting for the right man. [youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZuraJpB0OJg[/youtube] [Comment Details]
I think it is fair to say that the idea of wifely submission has been one of my biggest hang-ups about marriage …
Here I’ve tried to list down all my own personal values regarding dating and relationships. This page is likely to change a …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here While I was in London, thankfully I did not …
Well I recently celebrated another anniversary of my arrival here in this beautiful city. I love this city so much. However, from …
OK, I’ll admit it. I have just raced through writing my blog post on my other blog so that I could finally …
By the grace of God, God has blessed me with a very strong imagination. This is possibly the single biggest gift that …
This is a spontaneous blog post that just needs to be written right now! I am writing this blog post from a …
This post builds a little on last week’s post, about what friendship is “really”. This new post seeks to examine the subject …
After writing last week’s post on “What is Friendship?” I’ve been thinking a little more about the subject. What occurred to me …
I must admit that it is somewhat embarrassing for me to have to write this post. After all, this concerns something that …
I’ve just published this post on my other blog. However, for some reason, I feel compelled to post it here too! ———————————————————— …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here I used to beat myself up with these …
(Only because I could not bring myself to call this post “What it means to be hot!”) After I posted last week’s …
Well a few things have happened recently. The conclusion I have come to is that I seriously have to find me a …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. This post is all about contradictions. Having said that …
Let me firstly apologise for not blogging here for a few weeks. I’ve been otherwise occupied! During that time, my mind has …
I’ll start with a confession: I have only just thought of this blog post right now, while I was writing the postscript …
Well I was thinking about my last post which greatly focused on marriage and sex, and I thought it would be wise …
This is the third part to this post. The first is available here The second is available here Even if you are …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Imagine for a minute that your chosen partner is …
In this post, I am going to make quite a bold claim. I was thinking about this vaguely a few weeks ago. …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In our days, we have the benefits of modern …
Well I’m going to start this post by making my customary observation that it has been so long since I posted here. …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. However, if you had simply allowed yourself to get …
In this blog post I would like to write about my personal conviction regarding “the two year thing”. For people who do …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Unattractive Christians As I write this, it occurs to …
Well today I had been planning to write a post about my personal conviction about the power in getting to know someone …
As I start typing this it is already past midnight, and we are now technically into Monday, where usually I would type …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here If however, you did not spend the same time …
In my last post, I looked at a new and simple way to approach relationships before marriage to give each marriage the …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here POTENTIAL PROBLEMS: This is possibly the biggest potential problem …
Happy New Year to all readers of this blog! I’m kinda hoping to keep to a more systematic schedule myself for writing …
Well my previous post, published just a short while ago, was supposed to be the last post on this blog for this …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here And then naturally, I also need that he should …
To be honest, as I write this post, I have to admit that I don’t have a general destination in mind or …
OK – erm – how to start this?! Can I ask you all a question: how old exactly do I look?! Because …
This is as usual a blog post that I have been thinking of for some time. I was thinking that in a …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here In a way, I feel then that this message …
I was thinking recently about one big reason why many people face disappointment in marriage. To put it simply, life presents many …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. I guess though there is also the very important …
I came across an article with this same title a few weeks ago. It was also from a Christian writer. I had …
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here Following on from this, here are a few …
Well today (that is, when I first wrote out this post) I was going to publish a post about building a heavy-duty …
This is an ebook of an existing post here on Finding Mr Huggie Wuggie. It is available as a free ebook in …
This is an ebook of an existing post here on Finding Mr Huggie Wuggie. It is available as a free ebook in …
This is an ebook of an existing post here on Finding Mr Huggie Wuggie. It is available as a free ebook in …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here If you have identified an issue in your spouse, …
This week I have been sifting through a number of Huggie-Wuggie posts. While doing that, a few thoughts occurred to me. The …
I used to think that communication would be comparatively easy within marriage, that the period before marriage might be filled with communication …
I have personally struggled greatly with the tension between considering my own needs in marriage, and offering unconditional love to my husband …
This ebook asks whether it could be possible that many husbands effectively hinder the progress of their wives, purely because of ego. …
An ebook giving advice to ladies about being aware of the potential impact of hormones to arouse certain romantic thoughts or feelings. …
An ebook appealing especially to Christian ladies to insist on the highest standards of sexual purity within their relationships. It is available …
Well I’ve been thinking away about these topics as usual, and thinking about my favourite things…. However a thought that has been …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Well when the idea for last week’s post first …
OK, so within the week I found myself in a position of crying out to God in frustration about a number of …
Well I’ve logged on for the purpose of writing an altogether different post, which I shall hopefully also write after this one. …
This is a blog post which might seem to say the opposite of what I usually say. However, by the grace of …
(UPDATE 28th July 2014 This post was split off from an earlier existing post.) Something that strikes me now as it has …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here This is what playing hard to get looks like: …
Finally, finally, I am able to address this issue which I find unspeakably frustrating! It’s like this. As a person, as a …
Over the course of the week, I have been thinking away about marriage, as always. For anyone who follows this blog, you …
I have been thinking a lot about unconditional love recently. After starting off here on this blog with a number of posts, …
Yes, people, in case you have not already realised, let me make it clear that I am Miss Greedy-Indeedy! And this is …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Actually, with my big dreams about life etc (and …
A funny postscript to last week’s post: Someone asked me whether my prayers had worked yet! While yes, I believe my prayers …
I’ve previously written a post about how to pray for a spouse. This post here builds on that previous post. This new …
This is the third part to this post. The other parts are available here: Legitimate self-concern versus “unconditional love” in marriage Part …
This is the second part to an article posted last week Part 3 of this article is available here The three parts …
The three parts of this post have now been compiled into a single free ebook, available in a wide variety of formats. …
After all the thoughts that have occurred to me on the subject of love, relationships and marriage, I was recently reflecting on …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here. I do not think that there is anything wrong …
I’m going to apologise in advance as this post is largely about myself, so it might have limited relevance to other people! …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here This is all the more true, of course, if …
OK, this is a bit of a big post title. Before you read this post, if you are a Christian, I STRONGLY …
This is a post that expands an issue that I lightly touched on last week: the meaning of “For better or for …
Happy Easter Sunday to everyone, happy Resurrection Sunday! Well, as this is Easter Sunday, mindful of the sacrifice that Christ made for …
In my many thoughts about marriage, something that I have thought about a lot is a constructive way of handling difficult issues, …
I’m currently struggling to decide whether many of my recent blog posts here have been overwhelmingly negative. If you have been reading …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here When we are dreaming happily about marriage in general …
Let me start off by quickly saying that if I could choose between having a brilliant marriage and having a brilliant life …
This is the fourth part of this post. The first is available here The second is available here The third is available …
This is the third part of this post. The first is available here The second is available here All parts of this …
This is the second part of this post,the first is available here All parts of this blog post are now available here …
All parts of this post are now available together as a single free ebook in a full variety of ebook formats here …
Wishing Happy Mothers’ Day to all the mothers, grandmothers, aunties, family friends, sisters and other ladies who have helped shaped us into …
This is an idea that in a way flows quite smoothly on from the post of love versus infatuation which I wrote …
Well Happy Valentine’s Day everyone! In honour of Valentine’s day I am going to write today on a subject that is very …
I don’t know why it is, but my mind will be buzzing with interesting and exciting ideas for blog posts all week, …
Here are some thoughts that I have been thinking about communication. I used to think that communication would be comparatively easy within …
I am sure I have expressed these thoughts before on this blog, perhaps scattered through different blog posts. I believe that the …
This is a post that I’ve been thinking of writing for a while. However, even though this is a blog that gets …
Well after writing last week’s post on communication, I was reflecting a bit and thinking that there might be lots more reasons …
Ah, so Mr Huggie-Wuggie, it seems as if you have managed to elude my grasp for this year also?! Thank you to …
I’ve been thinking a lot about “communication” in marriage. Various wise and knowledgeable people refer to it as the lifeblood in any …
In my posts, I refer a lot to “dating”. I often speak quite negatively about it. Here, I thought I would clarify …
I sometimes wonder why it is in the midst of hard times that people break up. I always think that that is …
This is a blog post that I’ve been thinking about writing for a long time. A number of people have advised me …
[This post contains quite a long preamble – so here is a link to jump straight to the actual content of how …
Last week I considered the subject of how to be confident, even from before marriage, that a future spouse will keep getting better …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Overtaking? Sometimes, if someone is aggressively pursuing excellence, even …
The content of this post is now available as a free ebook from Smashwords, in a wide variety of formats here When …
This is the second part to this post. The first is available here Actually, I believe that everyone has the potential to …
This post is about mathematical issues regarding finding a spouse, and why I believe people (and especially women) should have the courage …
Update: Tuesday 23 October 2012: This post is now available as a free ebook from Smashwords in a variety of ebook formats …
This is the second part to this post. The first part is available here If you got married as a Christian to …
I’m going to start this post with what is now a customary apology for not having posted here for what is now …
This is a long overdue apology to someone I was at university with: [youtube]http://youtu.be/ZQmZvY_0yco[/youtube]
I think it would probably be most honest of me to admit that a big reason why I am almost insisting to …
Well anyone who has been following this blog at all will know that I have not posted here for a while. The …
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