March 2026 reminder: Yep, I still want this!

This is a little note just in case Mr Eventual Huggie-Wuggie is reading this:
Yeah, I definitely want this!  My goodness, I want this so much – that is a marriage.

I’ve been watching so many videos about how much people, that is women, regret marriage, and how marriage does not benefit women on the whole. While i am so aware of the different issues, the fact remains that I still want this.  I do not want to dismiss the experiences of other women, but I do hope that my own marriage will be noticeably different. Perhaps something crucial is that we as women/people need to be very clear about what we want from our marriages. We need to be clear on who we are. We also need to be clear that the men who eventually marry are being honest with their own selves, and also with us.